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*ikee_mike
writes:I was with a girl for 18 months and it may not be a super long period of time and we are still young but i knew she was something special. Not like any girl i have ever met. I love her with all my heart. Well at nights for the past couple months i would get on a website and talk to other girls. Nothing serious just conversations to pass the time. She got into my e-mail and sent the passwords from that website and myspace and she looked through everything. I had nothing to hide but she took it upon herself to delete people and what not. I don't really care about that because those girls mean nothing. Sometimes i would be kinda mean and when we fought i would sometimes say we shouldn't even be together and how could i think of having a future with her, stupid things like that. I didn't mean any of it but still said it. Still can't explain why but i have changed but it seems like its too late. She always seemed happy but I come to find out the past couple months she was more hurt and now she broke up with me. I tell her i've changed and I really have but she won't give me the chance. She says she still loves me and still has the same feelings and still sometimes thinks of what we could have and i really made her the happiest and i feel the same way about her. But now she says she likes not worrying about me and can do what she wants. She could have done that before with the exception of being with other guys of course and she's said she has no thought of other guys but not sure if she's just saying that. Now its hard just to get her to talk to me. Should I still fight for our relationship again or do I let her go now? I'm scared to lose her completely if i let her go. I've even put off joining the military because I know that would be a big strain on our relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): you say , you love her with all your heart and she is very special to you, in this case sure is worth to fight for this relationship...and don't forget, in war and love all isallowed .You should do something madman's to gain her back. then you shouldn't chit-chat online with other girls(:D) if she is jealous . win her trust ,and don't lose dignity.I wish you happiness from all my heart... Don't let her go !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): It is difficult but you are both young and I think you both might need the break to get to know other people and to realize if you belong togehter or not.
You cannot force her to be with you against her will, neither can you force somebody to love you and the more you are going to try and get her back now, the worst it might get. I think just remain friends and give it time.
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