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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's taken back up smoking and I'm so disappointed it hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is an "recovering" addict/ alcoholic. He goes to the AAA meetings and everything. When he started to sober up, he made me promise not to drink. Which Im fine with, since, I never do it much anyways. He also, wanted to quit smoking. So I ...

Now that he's not on probation, he wants little to do with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year. After the first month I met him, he was arrested, I stayed with him through that. Then, six months later, he went to court for what he was charged for and put on six months probation. ...

Is it normal for a man to stare at pretty, young teenagers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - is it normal for a man to look at pretty young teenagers? yes of course it is but he really stares, when out shopping or going for a meal i can see him as he examines them from head to foot when he thinks i am not looking, this year when we were ...

I really want to get intimate with him yet he doesn't seem interested at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Been dating my bf of almost a year...we moved in together a little over two weeks. I really want to get intimate with him yet he doesn't seem interested. We've tried to get intimate about 4 times but I think he was nervous or something because ...

Will things change or should I just give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 21 and have been in a gay relationship for just under 2 years but to say it's been easy would be a lie. I have cheated when we split up over christmas and also spoke to lads on my phone I'll be honest. But he has never cheated so he says but ...

Completely rejected and need advice on how to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I am heartbroken, lost, and confused. I met this man at my work. Very exotic and spoke spanish (which always gets me) and i was attracted instantly. Time progressed and we began to talk. We hung out a few times and the 2nd or 3rd date we were having ...

Can a cheater/liar ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 17 years, it has been a rough 17 years as he first cheated on me during our dating period. He even thought the girl was the girl of his dreams and moved out for a while. I having faith, took him back as we ...

Do I stay in this town or do I move back to the city with my children.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I moved from the city to be with my husband only to find out that he had an affair with a lady I happen to know. I cannot forget what happened between the two of them even though I have forgiven my husband. The question is, do I stay in this town ...

She says he won't get to see his child if he ever leaves him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a guy who has a bbaby mama. She threatens him with not being able to see his baby if he leave her. He's not happy at all but he's scared to leave... I love him so much I have his name tatooed on my body and I want to become his ...

I want without my parents negatively judging me for it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years. I'm 23 (almost 24) and he's 25. He works for an airline company and is always saying we should go places and travel, especially since it's free for us. I would love to travel, but my parents are very ...

She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live togethe...

They won't let her leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend needs out of where she lives. She's in Germany, 19, with people (very bad kind) and she wants out. She's a U.S. citizen but the people she lives with won't let her leave. They have her passport, it's abusive there. She's scar...

I feel resentment towards her for breaking my heart in this way.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I fell in love with a girl around 6 months back. On one of the first few times I met her. We became good friends and I asked her out a few weeks ago, she said no. It was heart-breaking to say the least and I think about what I could have possi...

I know I've done a really stupid thing... I just don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - In the last year I have become really close to a girl I met in my local pub. We are very good friends and go out in a small group of friends every weekend. But now I'm worried that I could lode her friendship over something really stupid that I h...

Is he ashamed to take me out in public or just simply scared that someone else might come along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. We've always been very close and honest with each other. But recently it seems like he's ashamed to take me out anywhere, or even show me affection in front of family. I've told him that a ...

Was I right in dumping him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I am a 20 year old female. I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 months. We were friends for around a year before that. During the course of our friendship I came to get to know both the good and bad sides of his personality. We worked on a few ...

We have finally split up for what I thought was for good. I feel that I have made a massive mistake but when we were together I was so unhappy. I am just so confused :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - my partner ( now ex ) and i have been together for 6 years on and off we have finally split up for what i thought was for good and that i wanted now he has really gone and moving on i feel that i have made a massive mistake but when we were together ...

I am new in this relationship thing. I have this beautiful young girlfriend, but I don't see anythin happening between us. What do I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - hi i am new in this relationship thing. am 19yrs. i just started dating this year september. i have this beautiful young girlfriend. she is new to this dating thing too. we are in the same class. i sent her an sms telling her that i dont see anyt...

After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. I want her to stop drinking so much. But how ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I love being with my girlfriend. We have a ton of fun together and rarely fight. After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. A few drinks is daily lately so in the mornings and afternoons she seems distant; makes me ...

I know its normally men that do this to women, but in my case I have been wronged. Why do women do this to men? Can woman attack men legally like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I was a recently engaged to a woman who i have been with for the past year and a half. Our relationship has always been somewhat turbulent, due to many extensive factors, however the majority being her unwillingness to find a job, her desire to use ...

My boyfriend has been masturbating to his ex's photos...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I just found out my BF of 2 years has been masterbating to his EX these 2 years. I came out and asked him and since he told me. She has huge boobs...he is a boob guy...I have great boobs 34D but they are not gigantor. I am very hurt about t...

Confused about my relationship with this married (and separated) man, should I stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this married guy for approximately 1yr and 3months. He's no longer with his wife. Ever since he left his wife, it's like things has change. I love him dearly, sometimes I feel as if he loves me, then there's time that I feel as if ...

She has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend however everytime we talk she talks about how she has thought about us being together in the future ! What do I make of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - So ok... In my last question i asked if i should let go of the girl i love with all of my heart right. well here is an update and a new question... she has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend, however everytime we talk she talks about ...

Does intermittently questioning yourself and your love necessarily mean you don't love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - This question may be asked a little too late, but I'll go into it anyway. Do you ever question your love for your partner, or do you think this necessarily means that you don't love the person? I feel strongly, and believe I care deeply for my pa...

We're on a break because I told him I went on a date with another early on. Are we over? Should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Ok someone please give me some insight on this situation. I was talking marriage with this guy I have been with for almost 9 months. Well he said he wanted me to explore other options before I settle for him. I said no I didn't want to. He asked me ...

Putting up with the partner's stress and mood swings - when is enough, enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - What say you? When is enough, enough? Does how much you'll put up with depend on the circumstances of your partner's mood swings as well as the length of your relationship, or is it never excusable to take your mood out on your partner? Does anyo...

My boyfriend is a workaholic. What should I do? I'm not ready to lose him either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for about 3 1/2 years- we are 19 and he is a workaholic , always stressed - he bought some land to build on and now our relationship is suffering. With his always working , i know he wants to get ahead for the ...

I decided not to break up but then I discovered he watches porn, am I not good enough for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Okay so here is my story. A few nights ago I told my boyfriend I think I needed a break to think things through then after I talked to him a bit about things (the biggest thing was that I wanted to have sex with one of my friends) and I r...

How can I forgive and forget that he slept with other girls during our break up?

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17 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We are both Young at 20 and 21. About 9 months we had a very sudden break up he told me he was afraid that we were to young to be so serious. I was very depressed but I was slowly moving on. ...