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writes:I love my boyfriend with every inch of my heart. He is so amazing to me and treats me like a princess. So why is it that every time he even just calls me I end up getting pissed off at him? I've been telling him for a while now that we have bad communication and that we need to change it but nothing has changed. We are always getting into little tiny fights that last about a split second or so. Is that normal to just get in those little tiny bickers with each other after spending so much time together? We spend about 4-5 days together a week but this weekend he went out of town and I've really been thinking about this. He is so good to me and sometimes I can be the meanest person to him for no apparent reason and he never does anything about it. This is my first serious relationship we've been together for almost a year and I'm scared of what to do. I definitely don't want to loose him and I can't loose him he means the world to me! What can I do to make him feel like he makes me feel? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): I gather from the post that you want to make him feel like a prince.
In every relationship there are silly arguments.That doesn't mean the relationship is bad.It means you are growing together as a couple.
Your fights last for a second?Lucky you!
We have fights that last for hours.If by the end of it one of us is seething fire,the other does some silly antics and makes the other one laugh.
I have forgiven him at times for many things that most women wouldn't forgive.So has he.The reason being that he is a good person at heart.
Its very very tough to find guys who are good at heart and who treat you like a princess.There are lots of bad guys out there who only see women as bodies.
Thankfully there are good guys like your boyfriend and good girls like you who want the relationship to work,making the world spin with out stopping yet.
There is a very simple trick not to get mad when you feel like you are losing it.
Step back from the situation for a minute.Think if some quirk of fate takes him away from you(Lord forbid).Would you still be feeling mad at him for silly reasons?If this is the last day that you get to spend together wouldn't you be loving him so much like your heart bursts over?
Treat every day of your relationship as the last day that you get to spend together.Trust me, your relationship will never see the last day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): I know exactly how you feel...i was with my ex-boyfriend for 5 months when all the sudden I was getting those same urges. For instance, we were shopping and i was pushing the cart and he had his hand on the small of my back and was rubbing and i started to get soooo mad at him i almost yelled at him (and he did nothing wrong). I found out that it wasn't meant to be for us obviously as he isn't my bf anymore. I would just watch for signs tho, this may be a sign he isn't the "one" for you...which is ok because everyone should date more than one person. I know you don't wanna lose him and I hope that you don't...this is just my opinion...Good Luck
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