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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Just found out my boyfriend of 5 years is calling chat lines.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I just found out that my boyfried of 5 years is calling chat lines and he has given his number out to this women. He didn't know that I had his password to his cell phone. I told him about the massage I heard and he told me he just does it when he ...

Do I have some sort of abused woman syndrome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Why am I not over him? I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost 5 years we lived together for almost the entire time, My head tells me leaving was the right thing to do so I did, He was very cruel he would say awful things and constanly ch...

How can I get this man 'out of my life'? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - I am 52, my live-in bf is 50. My bf is the problem..I can't put my finger on it. He seems very insecure, clingy and always needing desperately, some validation but it's constant and I am exhausted. I have tried reasoning with him, tried to ask ...

He doesn't show love and I think I should leave! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - MY husband says, he does not know ,why he is not interested to have sex with me. He says, he loves me. I don't feel it. He never looks at me nice,and never makes me feel loved. I tried everything. We have children.. Its a terrible though...

Does my daughter hate my gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - I took my daughter (who's 5) grocery shopping and she wanted cookies, I told her no because of my girlfriend (she call her a slut) and she put them in my girlfriend's bag. I think dont my daughter likes her very much. We been together for thr...

We have been living together for two months and all the good qualities about him just disappeared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - When my boyfriend and I met,it was an instant connection felt on both sides.After our first date,we decided to go on a camping trip(lasted for a week)the next day that turned out to best time in my life.He showed me he was the type of man I had been ...

My boyfriend falls asleep after sex leaving me aroused and frustrated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend always falls asleep after sex, he's really good in bed, but I can't seem to orgasm while having sex and so he cums and falls asleep and I'm left frustrated and horny, what should I do?...

He is all I have, I'm losing the only thing I have...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - i dont know where to start.i love my bf and he used to love me madly.i said i used to couse he changed in a strange way lately.after living 4 months together our relation has to turn in to long distance relation just for 3 months.we passed 2 months ...

Do I keep or dump him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (dating for 3 months),a clever and charming business guy, has suddenly stopped giving me attention and says he is too busy with his work to see me. He says he still loves me, but not seeing him as often as before brings doubts to my ...

Feelings toward the ex what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I went out with this guy for 7 months from january 17 of this year through august 12 of this year. I hated him for the excuse of "god told me to" that was his reason to break up with me. Now i went out with his friend and everything was fine until i ...

I know he masterbates to porn then denies it. No sex for me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - hello every one, i have just written lately about my husband,the one that i have just got married to and he is little cold with me even before he was dieing to marry me,and i found out that he look at porn and play with his self. every one told...

Hurting and want it to stop.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Well, well where to start... I started dating this guy almost 2 years ago, it was amazing he swept me off my feet made me feel like no other guy has ever we spent all of our time together, then all of a sudden he changed and was very protective ...

It feels as though my boyfriend's friend (and flatmate) has control over our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and his best friend has become quite a good friend of mine. Recently they got a flat together, and at first it was great. I was allowed round whenever, I stayed most nights and we all got on ...

Fiance distant while I am in Iraq

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Ok here's my deal. I am in Iraq and I have been with my Fiance for almost 2 years I try my hardest to call IM and email I even text and send her flowers once a month to let her know she is still on my mind and in my heart. the problem is she ...

How do marriages survive this kind of thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - OK, you guys were right. I've been a fool. My wife didn't just sleep with this guy once, she's carried on at least ten times with him. What hurts the most is - we had a deal on the table. I would forgive her her one indiscretion, and she would fo...

I feel he takes advantage. What can I do as I'm so fed up right now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hello, my problem isnt huge, but i feel like from your profile you can help me with my situation. I am so fed up at the moment and sometimes tearful. Im 29 and live with my boyfriend, and he does absolutley nothing to help me around the house apart ...

What can I do to speed things up to the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I need a bit of help! I'm 27 And my boyfriend is 24. We've been together for more then 2 years now. I'm getting a bit depressed, cause he doesn't want to take the relationship to the next level! He says he's too young for that and I should have ...

I have to stop feeling this way before it kills me. How do I handle this ?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I need help. I am getting seriously sick - literally and metaforically - because of the situation I am in. Here goes..I have been married for several years now. During the marriage me and my guy have been through a lot ups and downs and I see him ...

Weirdest break up ever!

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11 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my bf for 2.5 years and we just broke up. We broke up because we're in transitioning phases of our lives- leaving uni, he's going to medicine and going away for two months and i'm trying to get a job interstate and we've both been ...

Why was he so pissed off at me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I am in a relationship that started almost a year ago. I am 23, in college and recently lost my job suddenly which has been causing me a lot of stress. Before I lost my job, my boyfriend (he's 24) and I used to argue sometimes,...

Do I really love my boyfriend? Or is my pride more important to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i get into little arguments once in awhile. we've been together for 7 months. it usually starts because of something he does or say that just irritates me. and the way i deal with it is just not talking to him. i know that's unfair ...

My boyfriend wants to make out but I don't and he doesn't get it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend wants to make out and do other sexual things all the time. He said he will wait until I want to do them, but then he will go and bug me about doing stuff with him. I don't like to do that kind of stuff, and I don't want to. I tried ...

After a year and a half, is our future still uncertain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Things have been shaky with my current gf. We met over 2 years ago and went out for I think a month or two before I found out I was the boyfriend "on the side". I confronted her and told her to choose; she decided to dump the other guy. But I felt ...

My girlfreind is so depressed because of me .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfreind have been going out for one 13 months now and i really love her alot infact i could pretty much say i cant live without her. Im 14 yeah young but madly in love. When i was high i mistakenly tried to make out with another girl. ...

He wasn't that hard! Am I unappealing to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - ok so i theres this boy who i been talking to the past 2 or 2 1/2 years but we only see each other over the summer when he comes by where i live and we hangout alot then but during the year when hes not here we talk on the phone almost every night ...

She's not texting or calling me! Is she hiding something from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - hello, i have a question concerning if my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been dating a month now and at first when we were going out we were together i wouldnt say all the time but most the time. i would come stay by here house 4-5 nights...

I don't seem to please her sexually!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys I need a little help with something you see I met this wonderful girl... she used to be all depressed but now she says that I make her happy. But now all of a sudden we have had sex and I gave her a lot of pleasure but now... She says that ...

Am I being cheeky asking him to sacrifice this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hey There, can someone help me. My partner and I welcomed a baby boy last week. I am 2 stone overweight since the pregnancy.... His Mam called down this evening with a pressie for him, a floatation, which is basically a relaxation therapy thing ...

Do I have to choose between my family and the love of my life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I've been apart from my ex 3 months now, he's tried so hard to make it up 2 me and I'm very very confused, he stole from me which I still can't get my head round but I love this guy to pieces, I wanted to marry this guy and start a family. I was so ...