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Archived questions from: 26 February, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend lied to me about her past relationships, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6367 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently went through a break-up. We did our fair share of dirty deeds while we were seperated, but when we got back together we asked each other about the things we had done(not really the best idea we ever had). I told her of ...

My boyfriend has been depressed for a while now and I don't know what else to do to help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - i dont know what ells to do! my boyfriend for the last year is going through a depressed point and is allways accusing me of hateing him and wanting to find someone ells to be with, i have done all i can to get past this object so far, i dont want ...

How do I catch a cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, Do you think it is alright to accuse someone if they recently started not coming home from work and coming home late when they have not done it before? What should I do stop accusing him until I get proof. Any advice on how to catch ...

My boyfriend isn't opening up to me, I'm telling HIM everything about me and he keeps quiet about himself. How can I get him to open up more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of two years is having a hard time opening up to me. I feel like I'm telling him to much about my personal life and he's not telling me much of anything just things that he fells comfortable discussing with me. With that being said ...

Does he really want me and he's just too scared to admit it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - theres this guy and wev been friends for like 2 years but not like realy close close friends. and well everytime we wld get drunk together we wld fool around even tho he had a girlfriend. and well the first time he told me stuff like he wanted me ...

Any suggestions on how to stop my mobile addiction and to help get rid of some of the pressure off him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - My fiance has just started up his new business from scratch, but it's a lot of presure on him, but its cauisng us to argue, he shouts and it scares me hes never ever hurt me. I just wonderd what i could do to help take the presure off a little. I ...

He said he was confused, that I deserved better, he's not worth it. Should I wait till he gets his mind together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Alright...I started feeling a little itch. This weird feeling came over me one day when we were together. It was doubt. I mean not from my own feelings but from him. I don't know why but I did. The next few days I began to think and think about the ...

How can I get skinnier? I'm 5 foot 9" and 149lbs.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (?) - Hey everyone, I have a question, Im 19 and in vet school. I have an amazing boyfriend, who is at university about 3 hours away. I know I should be happy, but I cant help but worry. Im 5ft 9 and I weigh 149.6 lbs. I feel nauseous every time i look in ...

He told me he was confused about our relationship and wants to hook up with other girls, he apologised later for it but now I can't get it out of my head! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half now and for the past 6 months we've been having a long distance relationship, but we've managed to be able to see each other at least once a month. the other day my boyfriend called me and ...

Because of money problems..I may end up losing my bf! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I'm afraid I'll lose my boyfriend forever because of not making enough money. We are actually pretty much on a par in terms of earnings, but he makes a little more, but also has many more expenses. He doesn't want to care for me that way, though he ...

How can I get him to be more interested in ME and not keep looking at porn all the time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi I have been married for 1.7 years we are both 22 and we have a beautiful daughter who is 14 months and we have been together for 2.6 years now I love my husband sooo much and I know he loves me but the thing is he looks at porn online he ...

I need different sexual positions to spice up our love life, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - ive been with my fiance since i was 13 and im now 21 and we have had regular sex since then but i want to try something different maby different positons and things!!!! buti dont want to say anything to him as he might think im getting bored help? x...

My current bf doesn't see how I could sleep with someone else when I was in love with him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex boyfriend at the start of the summer last year because I fell out of love with him... Partially because he treated me badly, partially because I'd fallen for my best friend. My ex and I stayed friends until recently. A li...

I'm 26 and a christian and want to wait till marriage before I sleep with someone but it's so hard as I have "wants" you know? How can I get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I am really struggling in a particular area of my life at the moment. I became a christian a year ago and beleive that I should wait until I am married to have intimate relations. I never have been one to have many boyfriends etc before I was a ...

He says he doesn't lie.... but does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - i have been goin out with this guy for 5-6 months now and he tells me the truth about everything and doesnt lie to me.BUT DOES HE? thats what i cant get out of my head because ive been hurt before its hard to trust but it just feels like that he ...

Help! I've just found out my boyfriend is using me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - help i just found out my boyfriend is using me, he lives with his parents and i met him online he had me send him stuff all the time for him and his son thousands of dollars said he needed money needed toys for his son, he was doing without food. ...

He says he loves me but I've heard that before from guys and been hurt before. How do I let my guard down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - About 4 months i ago my ex and i break up cuz he didnt want a gf or a relationship anymore and it really destoryed me cuz he was my best friend since 8th grade and we are both in our 20's and we dated for 3 months. Anyways i just started dating this ...

He wants to go clubbing with his single mate...why would he do this when he has a perfectly nice gf at home?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi i was just wondering what purpose is there for two guys wanting to go clubbing what can they do especially if one is single and the other isnt? So really what can the the non single one do while the other is dancing and kissing maybe ev...

Help! I feel stuck in a time hole...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I need help please.. I am stuck in a time hole, I can’t move on or even more forward with my life because I freeze with the reaction of the women that loved and I spent almost one and half year of my life with. We had our arguments and things...

He said that I'm flawless/ sweet and I deserve the best man ever! I mean isnt this similar to the line "it's not you, it's me" line? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - hey, hope your fine! I've a huge crush on this guy with me at work, recently we started talkin more often and he asked me out once and it went gr8, he kept tellin me all about his previous relationship, he's very decent and just too good to be true....

She wants the 'wow' in a relationship so she obviously isn't finding that with me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend looks at other men and says that she looking for this 'wow' in a relationship. I said 'well you obviously aren't getting that with me then' and she didn't deny it, instead she said that she didn't trust me because my best friend is a ...

My boyfriend took his sister's side over mine and it really hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and over the time had a few probs with his sister. They are very close. Anyway every time she gets drunk she becomes all needy, turns her back to me, and makes comments that make ...

We are both seeing other people but can't stay away from one another. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi I have been with my partner for 3 years. He is caring and i love him-but dont think im in love with him. About 4 months ago i met some1 else in a club.Nothing happened between us we were just dancing and having a laugh. A couple of weeks later i ...

I lost my husband in December and don't know whether to get involved with an old flame? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - In December, my husband whom I love very much, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly... We lived in another state, and I've since relocated back to my home town, where I'm staying with my parents for a couple more weeks before I move into my new h...

What can I do to make things more understanding between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - hi there myself and my boyfriend have a son of 4yrs old.in the past 4yrs we were experiencing lots of problems. his been cheating on me with lots of women and we broke up and made up.then last year july we made up and things were just perfect ...

she told me she wants to make out with another woman and it is seriously worrying me that she would want to do that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship that is fairly new (4 months). I really care about her and she has reciprocated these feelings. Things were going great up until a few weeks ago when we hit some bumps in the road - dealing with the distance and ...

Should I tell her how I feel about her before it's too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I have a question I'm in need of advice. I have a friend who I have liked for many years but never told her. The reason why I never told her was because she was always in a relationship with this guy who has no backbone. The back drop to my question ...

Ifa girl hasn't heard from a man for 2 weeks, (no contact at all) does that mean he's a bit of a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - If a girl hasn't heard from a man for 2 weeks (absolutely no contact at all, no texts, no phone calls, no MSN, no emails) does that mean (he's a bit of a player) that he is leading a double life or has got something to hide? When he does say ...

Do you think he told me his true feelings when he was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I fancied this guy for some months (we lived in different countries). and he stayed at my place for one month and went back to his country recently. During the month he stayed at my place, we spent a lot of time together. We had sex, too. ...

Hes suddenly gone silent, and dispondent!! What can I do ? I'm really worried!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi there, I’m worried about my boyf for the last few days… we’re together over a year and everything is great with us. We have a healthy relationship in every way and love spending time together, going away on w/ends and normal things like that… ...

I got told to back off by this guy, from my own girlfriend!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - Hi, This is a strange one. At the weekend i went out with my girlfriend (drinking). She's a smoker and ran out of cig's, She ask some guy for a fag and sat down chatting for 30 mins to this guy while i was playing a game of poker with friends. After ...

We got divorced, but I want him back, How can I make it work ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - me and my ex-husband we got divorced on the phone after a two years spent apart, never seen him once, seperate countries... we come from different religions and that caused another problem, we got divorced 5 month ago after i found out about some ...

I'm convinced he doesnt want to be with me and its wrecking the relationship!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi hope you can help. For some reason I seem to be self destructing my new relationship with a really nice guy. This past week im not sure what has come over me I have become very insecure about it all, I panic if he doesnt reply to texts or ...

Shes wants to suddenly end it, and then come back later, does she just not want me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6485 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and everything has been going great until yesterday she said she wanted to end the relationship and still be friends as she wants to concentrate on being a good mother to her 2 year old son ...

I plan to propose to her soon, but Im so worried that we have not intimacy, we are like family members, not lovers!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for a while now. i plan to propose to her in a short while and she is aware of it. the problem i'm having is on the intamacy side of our relationship. i have been patient over the period of our r...

I'm still very good friends with my ex but am with someone else who I'm terrified hurts me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - i need some help, and have two questions. 1. about 4 months ago i split up with my boyfriend of 15 months but told him that i still loved him and wanted to go out with him again at some point in the future, which i genuinely did - i even spent a ...

Is this the way all men are ? Are his doubts about marriage meaning he never will marry me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my b/f for almost 2 years...He made a joke about marriage but in a negative way..I said you don't ever want to get married in general to anyone?(he is 30 by the way and i am 23)..he said he doesn't know, its a big decision..i told ...

Is my fiancee behaving inappropriately towards these teenage girls ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I want to know if my fiance is being inappropriate. My fiance is 33 and I am 24, but I never really thought the age difference was a problem. However, he talks to girls on myspace (that are his friend's younger sisters) and they are 15. I think it ...

Hes seperated from his wife, but often stays at the marital home, am I right to refuse to see him until this is sorted ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hello readers, I have fallen in love with a man who is married, but separated from his wife. He lives with a mate who he doesn't really get along with. He and his wife own a lovely city apartment together and as he works different hours to her, he ...

I told my work colleague I couldn't keep seeing him because of age differences, one month later he's getting married and I'm shocked!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - All my life.... i have met guys that have not treated me right. They said they wanted to be my friend but in the end they really want the sex. I am very shy, compassionate person and i am also naive when it comes to things like that b/c i want ...

I think she only wants me back because my mate is with someone now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6485 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - hi i was going out with this girl for 2 to 3 months and she was txting my m8 the week before we finished and she said she wants me back but i think she only wants me back because my friend is back with his fianci but she told me she loves me what do ...

I really thought there was a connection between us but she hasn't answered my text. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - Hi friends, please help I could really do with some advice, from anyone!! I met this girl called K 2 weeks ago at a geography open day at Exeter university, whilst waiting in the lounge and being put into groups, i turned and spotted K amongs...