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writes:ive been with my fiance since i was 13 and im now 21 and we have had regular sex since then but i want to try something different maby different positons and things!!!! buti dont want to say anything to him as he might think im getting bored help? x
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Karma Sutra's so over rated... its basically the same thing over and over again. Just go with what you feel like, come up with something yourself. The Karma Sutra varies three standard positions, they're all based on standing, lying or sitting. Change a few things from that, you'll manage. Has anyone actually read that thing? There was a part about 'sprinkling monkey feaces on her head' no kidding! Now what in the hell is that about???
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
You know what book you absolutely HAVE to get?!
The Cosmo Kama Sutra. It has (and I quote) "77 mind-blowing sex positions" - and also, it's Cosmopolitan, so it's gotta be good. It's hard cover and amazing and only $12.48 on amazon.com. Look, I even marked the page for you!
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1588164233/ref=ord_cart_shr/103-7799990-7460614?%5Fencoding=UTF8&m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&v=glance
That's the ticket for you. Cosmo also put out a book of "Cosmo's Aqua Kama Sutra: 25 Sex Positions for the Tub, Shower, Pool, and More" - you can buy them together on amazon.com for $22.43. And that'll be 102 new sex positions total for you to try! Fabulous!!
Enjoy, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, Farris +, writes (26 February 2007):
 I'm surprised that you haven't already worn out the Karma Sutra!
The best way to get around this with little embarrassment, is when you're starting to get intimate with him, talk to him dirty and mention a few things that you might like to do. If you get a good reaction out of him, then agree and go for it.
If he still wants to keep things familiar, that's okay too. But afterwards, you should tell him that you'd like to experience new things with him.
The key is to find things that you both like! Maybe you could do some research together and discuss the things you'd like to try. Everyone's different... Some people might like to be tied up, and other not. Mix it up, but most of all you have to AGREE on it. Sex shouldn't be for personal gain.
Most of all, just remember not to take it too seriously; Have fun!
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reader, ask-me-anything +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Why don't you buy a Karma Sutra book, and mention to your fiance, that it may be fun to try different positions. Don't tell him that you went out looking for the book, just say to him on your travels you saw the book and decided you would like to experiment. Most 21 year old males would jump at the chance! hehe. I hope i've helped. xxxx
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