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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

For 3 years I have lied to him about my age and surname! Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - can someone help me? Not only have i lied about my age, i lied about my name.. i'm so ashamed of this... so can someone please help me!? Well i met my boyfriend 3 years ago when i was 17 turning 18, he asked me how old i was and i told him that ...

I feel I have to read his emails/texts because he was hiding his contact with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Sorry this is long! I have been with my BF for 3 years. He makes me feel so special and treats me so well. Everyone says they can see how much we love each other. That's why I'm confused.. After a year he was acting a bit dodgy when getting t...

He quickly let go of my hand when he saw her coming. Do you think he's ashamed of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hey im 16 and my bf is to. i have been wiv him for roughly 2 months. we go 2 the same school and today we were walking down the corridor with r arms round eachother as usual and we saw one of his teachers walking down the corridor up ahead. and my b...

He's going to a bike rally and I don't think its really the place to go if you're in a relationship. I'm really not ok with this, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i told my b/f i am not ok with him going to a bike rally for a week with what goes on..women walking around barely naked acting pervocatively at night, dancing on bars naked sometimes, flashing..it just doesnt seem like the place to go if married or ...

Is it time I moved on? I don't feel the same for him and it makes no sense to continue our relationship. Can anyone else relate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Should I move on? I've been with my partner for over 4 years. We don't live together and have no children together. I've been very confused over my feelings for him over the last 8 months. I don't find him attractive anymore, we don't share the ...

I'm gay and my boyfriend moved in with me... But he's sooo lazy and has a large dog which is running riot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. Last year he left everything, moved 120 miles, took a new job and moved in with me. Since moving in he has done nothing to help with keeping the house or paying bills unless I specifically ...

Do you think I have any chance with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i realy like a boy in my year at school i have liked him for a few months almost a year a go everyone started to smoke yesterday i started to sell fags i dont smoke i think it is horrible the boy who i like smokes and i sell him fags since i have he ...

I keep comparing myself to his girlfriend which makes me feel even worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Well I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend, who I think is more attractive than me. I'm quite jealous/envious of her and I really don't like to feel like this, even though I don't know her. I compare myself to her, which in honesty, make...

Parts of my life really get me down, any tips on how to make me feel better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Hello, parts of my life is really getting me down at the minute and i'm just wondering if you've got any tips to try and help me feel a bit better about everything. I've been in love with this guy for 2 years now, yet he only pays me attentio...

Should I tell her I've slept with someone else since we've been apart?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - My ex-girl friend wants to get back together with me after spending nearly a year apart. We had had a long term relationship (over ten years) but ran into problems sexually - I have a very high sex drive where she, for a number of reasons, didn't ...

I Was Controlling, But I Am Willing To Change!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - things were fine with my boyfriend for a year or so, however a particular situation ended up being very hard for me and i became depressed. i mean seriously depressed not just bummed. i had negative thoughts constantly and i started being an idiot...

Im really worried hes a cross dresser!! and dont know how to approach him about it!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 months, it has been great and he is a very caring and fun guy, we fell in love and he is moving in with me next month. I was very excited about this until I one day I discovered whilst looking up an item of ...

I am in love with my Boyfriend and My girlfriend! I want to keep both, What should I do!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I am 23 and had a sexual relationship with an older gay man since i was 17 when i fell in love. up till then i have always just fancied girls, and though i had the odd one night stand (girls) in the 5 years. i have always been in love and happy with ...

My ex-fiance of 3 years still keeps in contact even though she is engaged to someone else, is she just playing me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Hi all, I am 39, and have been broken up with my ex-fiancee for the past 3 years. We have both kept in contact during that time, even while dating others. She is living with someone and engaged. Yet, still, she will see me, spend time at lunch, o...

My husband cheated and we spent 18 months building bridges, but then I find her number in his wallet!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am so lost. My husband of nearly 20yrs had an affair for almost a year. He ended it when I found out and we have been building bridges for the past 18 months. Obviously the trust is very shakey thus the reason why I sometimes check his wallet. ...

Im in love with my ex ex again... he wants to make a go of it would this be wise!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Hi all My ex and I are together again... we dated only for 2 months but our relationship didnt work. We started off very fine when we were dating then, but 3 weeks down the line he was emotionally shut, he withdrew from the relationship, bu...

Found my wife kissing her best friend! It bothers me, should I discuss it or ignore it!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Found my wife kissing her best friend,did'nt overreact but feel quite insecure,married for 23 yrs although I suspected that she might have done this before or gone further.Love my wife and kids,what should I do,discuss it or ignore it.It was put ...

Should I be worried the he refused sex, but then jerked off the next morning!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i have a bf, we have been going out for 2.5 years now, and do have sex. just the other night, i assumed we would have sex, but we decided not to since we do it almost 4-5 time a week (!?!?) any way, that very next morning, i saw my bf jerk off.....

Should we give this is a more "official" feel of a relationship or will it make it worse!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I met someone while traveling through Australia last winter and we've kept in touch regularly through emails/MSN/text messaging. I tried to keep a pen-pal feel to the whole relationship, but lately I just really really miss him and I'm struggling to ...

I'm worried that while away hes just going to get used to being without me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - is there anyone who reads this in the army or navy? do the guys stay faith full to there girlfriends? my fella went away 2 months ago and hes now more relaxed and getting used to been away he doesnt really call me that much any more but trys to...

We split 2 months ago, he wasnt ready to settle down, now we are in contact again, I love him but dont want to get attached!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - me again been here before. basically i been split from my boyfriend for 2 mounths after a 2 year and a half year relationship. He wanted me to wait for him till he was ready to settle down, in the end i said i wouldnt put my life on hold for him. ...

I really love her, but want a future, I need to know which path to take!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me so I could pursue my dreams/ambitions/career/life. She tells me she still loves me but wants me to be happy. I trust and believe her and her motives. I still love her more than anything. If I left, in a perfect world, ...

I know hes bad for me, but I want him all to myself, I love him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - as i told you about the boy iv liked for years he is 18 and im 15 , he only just started ringing me i ring him all the time and he rings me all the time he always says are you gonna come and meet me, he has never really been in a relationship ...

Been dating 3 years, but he doesnt even give me money for lunch!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 yrs. I am at school, he does not even give me money for taxi fare's and not even for lunch but he is working. Is this right or i am greedy please help...

I think I got in the way of his perfect life... How can I prove I'm right for him now he's dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Help. I am in a serious state of confusion right now. I moved in with my boyfriend a year ago. We had been dating 2 and a half years previous to that. Total. we dated 3 and a half years. We are currently broken up, and living two hours apart. Do you ...

Thought the child would bring us closer together... but I was wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Hi ppl, i do need some help with this ugly situation i'm in. I've been married to this man for the past 3 years. In the beginning everything was fine and he looked quite perfect to me. After some time we had our problems, caught him in a big lie ...

I'm one of the sweetest girls on earth... until he got drunk and said he'd never marry me and I started hitting and biting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for one year. We have dated for 3 months before that. I think it is enough time to know each other. Around may we are supposed to have a conversation on getting married. I am (like he says too) one of the ...

Im confused, is he saying we can have kids or not!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am in love with a man 16 years older. We've been living in for 3 years now.When we first got together, he said he wanted to get married and have children but every time i tell him i'm ready to start a family he thinks of some reason to put it ...

How can I get my guy to stop chatting other women up!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend are always argueing over stupid things but the things he dose hurt me very deeply but i dont want to loose him how do i get him to stop chatting other women up? please help me ...

Should I take the risk on him, he said he doesnt love me but is that because he has commitment issues!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am dating a 44 year old man who is very good looking and has had the opportunity and been in numerous relationships...within 6 mths to a year at the most they end, as he has said there has always been something wrong with the girl....and i ...

Is this just my trust issues coming into play or might he be playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Now everyone has heard of myspace im sure of well there is this new guy im talking to and yes i meet him off of there. We went out on two dates and i saw him at his job and he came to mine. we have so much in common and i really like him. I never ...

Shes asked for a divorce, But also needs money, I want her back, dont know what to do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Separated,no children,12 yr friendship,10 yr relationship,4 yr in marriage. We were best friends, we studied together for sometime. My W confides in friends, Mother and diary but never me. I was insecure,jealous,overpro...

She's married... should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - hi i have this woman i my life and i really like her more than friends.the trouble is she is married should i tell her how i feel.any advice would be good....

I just found out my boyfriend has been having a sexual relationship with another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I am 26 with a young child, i have just found out my boyfriend of 8 months has had a sexual relationship with a much older man for the last 5 years (including the 6 of months with me). at the start of our relationship i did not see much of him as he ...

He has a new girlfriend that he works with but still calls me, now I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My ex and i split about 2 months ago and recently we decided that we should meet up because we both felt ready. We ended up getting on really well and he was ringing me all the time and told me he still loved me. However he has a new girlfriend who ...

I'm sticking with it for now to avoid being on my own, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Help! My partner and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We used to have a good time together but over the last 6 months my feelings have changed and we've really drifted apart. I have a son who's 11 from my previous marriage and he has two ...

Why can she never express her love to me or say those three little words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past four months now. She claims she can never say the words " I love you" and even when I express my love to her she doesn't respond. she avoids intimacy and only kissed me once. on valentines day I bought her a ...

My girlfriends relationship with her mum really annoys me, its so childish!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I really hate my girlfriend and her mums relationship with one another. They are far too close and irritating. Whenever Im round my gfs house I get uncomftable when her mum comes in because they are giggling and jokey and try and embarass me. ...

He doesn't trust condoms and I don't like taking medication including birth control pills. How can we combat this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - when my boyfriend and i are messing around to the point of possible sex, it always ends because he doesn't trust condoms and im not on birth control. he has asked me before if id think about going on it, and i have thought about it, but the more i ...

When we argue I'M always the one who's wrong. He also doesn't want to marry me. Does he think I'm not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been with my fiance for 3 years and he cant be honest with me, he refuses to accept any kind of blame if we argue and im always in the wrong, he thinks im trying to change him but im not, just trying to make him grow up an to stop thinking ...

Been with him for 4 years but the chemistry has gone. I feel as if I'm out with my mate or brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kid...

How can I get him back or at least get the feelings going again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:?...

I'm enjoying his attention and don't want to lose it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - im 18 and have a boyfriend whom i love . He doesnt work he is still in matric. i have a full time job and there is someone that works with me who is 33, married with one child who is extremely into me! we both wont let anythin happen because of the ...

My boyfriend is really sweet buthe lies all the time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I love my bf a whole lot, we have been together for two years. He used to be the sweetest thing ever, but know he lies, all the time, and he's started being really rude and mean to me. What should i do??????????? Please help...

He seems more interested in this other woman (who's married) than he does me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - The man I have been dating seems to constantly talk about a woman he works closely with. Although she is married with small children, he seems interested but doesn't persue becaus she's married. He seems to find every opportunity to talk about her ...

We're seeing each other less and less, is this boredom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been dating someone from work for about 5 months. when we first started dating it seemed as though he couldn't get enough and now I feel like i'm seeing him less and less and he doesn't seem as affectionate as when we started dating. Is it ...

How do I approach another woman after my 4 year relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been with her for 4 years and dont know how to approach another woman after the breakup, wat do i do and what do i say if i am interested in another girl. Also she heard a rumor that i was checking another girl while we broke up and she...

Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past. We've been together for 18mos. We're both early 30's so obviously there are going to be people before us, but I have a feeling that if I asked for her number I would probably ...

My girlfriend wears the pants! How do I get the pants back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend wears the pants. How do I get my pants back?!? I feel this problem stems from her making alot more money than I do. It isn't really possible for me to make more money because I am at uni full-time and she isn't, so I don't have the t...

How much more should I give and take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6483 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - How much more should I give and take? Based on mistakes in past relationships i've made myself a very open and honest person. I have learned that keeping things inside and not openly communicating in a relationship can make it rot from the ins...