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writes:My fiance has just started up his new business from scratch, but it's a lot of presure on him, but its cauisng us to argue, he shouts and it scares me hes never ever hurt me. I just wonderd what i could do to help take the presure off a little. I also have a phone addiction and he moans about me ringing and txting him. Any suggestions on how to stop my mobile addiction and to help get rid of some of the pressure off him! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): For goodness sake' the answer is staring you in the face!
STOP ringing and texting him! When you feel tempted to do so, just tell yourself "I'm not going to do that" and turn your attention elsewhere.
Call him ONCE a day - if he is willing to go for that, if not, ASK him what is acceptable - and then do not go beyond the agreed-on limit.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 February 2007):
 When someone is stressed the absolute best thing you can do for them are the little things like cooking him a nice meal, running him a relaxing bath or giving him a sexy massage.
As for your phone addiction I'm just like you. When I go abroad I wonder what the heck I'm going to do without my phone but, when I'm in a situation when I can't use my phone, I'm not really affected by it. Agree with your boyfriend how often you shoudl text or call a day and stick to it on pain of death. If you can't do this leave your phone at home or in a locked box and give someone else the key.
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 February 2007):
 If your mobile addiction is the cause of most of your arguments due to hefty bills coming in each month. I don't know if you are pay as you go, or wether you are contract. If you are the latter get onto to you rental company, and say you what to change to incoming calls for a couple of months, and also have your texts barred. Its probaly the only way that will cure your addiction, if you can't use it think of the money you would be saving.
This alone would aleviate alot of stress off you boyfriend.
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