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Archived questions from: 15 February, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He has lost trust in me because of my past. How can I make her see I would never cheat on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 months and she just broke up with me because I lied to her about my past. I had told her that I cheated on my gf that I had in high school(4 years ago) but left out until now that I cheated twice and I ...

My on/off again bf says he "appreciates" me and "needs" me - what does he mean?! He constantly cheated on me w/ his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - Ive been with my bf for 2 yrs now. On and off. We break up alot, then get back together. We fight all the time about nothing. I found out he's been cheating on me with his ex. Don't know if i really believe her though, since we have never liked each ...

After his climax, he's dressed and ready to go out for food! What about my needs?!?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - It's like it's all about him! How can I make him see I have needs, too? My boyfriend and I are really close. We've been together for a year, but after the first five months of having sex (It's month nine and a half), he kind of lost interest in...

My bf of 6½ years broke up w/ me and said I'm more like a sister. How do I move on? I'm also a bridesmaid in his sister's wedding and am dreading it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6446 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - How do i get over my boyfriend of 6.5 years? He split up with me just before xmas and then said he made a mistake and we got back together. On new years eve he wanted time again. He dumped me a month ago. He said that he cared and loved for me as a ...

How can I help my guy to get a higher sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - HI I am in a six month relationship with a 26yo professional male. Our relationship is ideal on a number of levels. We have great respect for one another and our interests and hobbies align perfectly. Socially our friends and family all get a...

My bf's friend tries to hook him up w/ other girls! They say they're joking, but my guy almost cheated on me last year! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - I have a problem with one of my boyfriend's close friends, let's call him Jake. This guy Jake spoke crap (really bad stuff, like calling me a whore, a slut and stuff) when my bf n I just started going out. He said all this behind my back and was a ...

I came home to find a note saying my husband moved into a flat! I think he's seeing another woman again. I am devestated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - What do I do? My husband and I have been together for 12 years (married 7). About 3 years ago he had an affair, it was completely unexpected and I didn't realise we even had any problems. I forgave him and he promised me it was all over. Abo...

He wants to try being friends, but I feel pressured to "perform" so he'll want me back. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, I need some advice. I moved in with my boyfriend after only being together for 4 months. Before we moved in together everything was perfect and we got on so well. When we lived together we used to bicker as we saw each other ...

The guy I'm with wants to date other women, too! I'm uncomfortable with that. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - Im new to the dating scene I guess, always been in a relationship. Right now, I'm dating one guy but to him it's okay for him to date other women. I'm not really comfortable with that. I'm sort of selfish when it comes to men I dont like to share ...

We're great friends, but his ex and him are very close. What's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - We love each other very much,we are great friends even.He lives 2 houses from his ex-girlfriend. They are very close friends. they are sometimes together at his house at night or in the street at night. he walks here home at night. she's free to ...

I've been w/ my gf for 3 years, but I've loved another for 6 months, too! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - Hi, i'm having a girlfriend (lets call her girl A) for over 3 years now and i think she really is the one for me. she feels the same way about me too. but now there's a girl at my school who i love too, but she's also one of my best friends. i ...

How can I stop my friend making me look a fool all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - My friends are constantly patronising me and making jokes about the stupid things i say or do. I admit that i come out with the occasional "blond" comment and yes i do do stupid or naive things every now and then but who doesnt? The wors...

My husband has no hobbies and no friends. How can I get our marriage back on track?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2170 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - I have been married to a kind and loving man for 9 years. It's a good marriage, but like everyone we have our ups and downs. One issue in particular raises its ugly head every couple of years. My husband has no friends. He has no interests or ...

I hired a PI and found out my wife had cheated. I want to forgive her but how can we move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - I am a man who adores his wife of 6 years. I am not at all a jealous man, and I see the world in shades of grey, which means I consider why, not just what. 2006 was a bad year, misunderstandings all year long. To keep this short: 1)I have...

I got a valentine's message on my phone that this person loves me. I haven't cheated and this has caused so much trouble. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - yesterday was valentines, my boyfriend and i started the day as usual in a loving way, he dropped me at work and i left my cell phone with him, sometime during the day i received a valentine msg from a friend who i know from a long time which said" ...

I've split up from my boyfriend and don't know if I've done the right thing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - I'm jst going through a break having been together for two years. At the begginning of the relationship everything was great.But as the second year past i found that it felt as though things were missing,i loved and still love my boyfriend but am ...

He is making me feel guilty for not loving him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - Why is my husband blaming me for not loving him anymore?, and accusing me of cheating on him (im not). We have been together for 10yrs he has cheated on me , lied about numbers on his phone, looked at other women on the net and commented on their...

My husbands affair is over but the women wont go away!! Any advice to get rid of her ??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - My husband has had an affair which is over.The woman involved keeps phoning and texting both of us.She is now involving work and his ex wife.She says all she wants is to talk to him and needs answers.I told him he was not to have any contact with ...

He feels pressured for sex, I feel neglected, What can I do to make this right again!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - My bf and I dont see eye to eye sexually and its now causing major issues. Been together 4 years. Love each other immensely, but I'm down about the whole relationship because of the sex. its not an overnight thing, and has been going on for a ...

Things are going slow...any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - hello, happy valentine everybody... Well I'll go straight to the prob...there's a guy with me at work but he's in a different dept so I don't see him much; he's sooooo great we've recently been getting close... ast week we went out it was our 1st t...

She just confessed that she cheated, I dont know how to cope with this now!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years. She just told me that she cheated on me with a friend of mine. They went out 3 times(as friends) but the last one ended up with a kiss and he asked for a hand in which she did.. I am feeling very ...

Will our different values drive us apart???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is a white supremicist. I am white but i have a very diverse family (my aunt, from my grandpa's first wife, is half black and he also has a son who is half mexican). He tells me he doesnt mind because he loves me and some of my famil...

Broken up but she still loves me!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - Im writing is as I am in need of help and advice ASAP Basically me and my girl split up 2 weeks ago. We've been together for nearly 3 years, in that time we have split up 3 times. I truley love her and am certain she loves me. Up until a week bef...

Is my crush leading a double life??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - I've been worried crazy for the last few days if my crush was gay or not (im a guy, hes a guy). Did alittle bit of investigating online and turns out that on one of his profiles he says hes bisexual. The thing is that I've also just found out that ...

Our sex life has changed since our son, he looks at porn, and doesnt show much interest me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs.six months ago we had a baby boy, it seems to me our sex life has gone from almost every day to almost every week. he has always watched porno's (dvds/vhs) but it never bothered me as much then than it does ...

Should I tell him and hope he forgives me, or forgive myself and not mention it!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been toguether almost a yr we decided we would start seing echother the day we met he lives hours away from me so we only visit a few days a month. i lost my job a week after we met and i had sex with 2 men,and gave head to ...

Been together a year and things about him are really started to bug me about him now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - Okay, so I have been dating this guy for one year. I have known that I loved him for a long time and we have even kind of thought about marriage in the future, but for the past month we are fighting on and off and on and off. At first I thought it ...

Am I not fitting his ''pornstar" fantasies anymore because he masterbates to it in the mornings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - ok so i usually dont have a problem with anyone watching porn. Like, I dont care if my boyfriend watches it, its reality'; everyone does. But then when it comes time for me to try and get him off i can't because he was masturbating that morning or ...

I'm severly depressed and I feel my BF has given up on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - i'm very scared. i've been severly depressed for some time, and its affecting my relationship with my bf. i cant bring myself to look at him the same. i've changed, i still love him, but sometimes i feel that he's given up on me, like he doesnt love ...

Three is definitely becoming a crowd! Do I hurt my ex or lie to my GF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (M) - My ex still needs my conversation but my GF isn't taking it well. Advice? I was living with a woman ten years older than I since i was 17. At 25, I lost physical attraction and left her for someone I had strong attraction too. I also moved 400 m...

I really want to leave him because he hid that he was a smoker from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - Recently I made my boyfriend quit smoking. I have a big problem with smokers. My mom smoked when I was a kid and I hated it she finally quit when I was a teenager and we became a lot closer. I vowed from then on I wouldn't have to deal with smokers ...

My long distance fiancee of 3 years dropped a bombshell - he killed someone 8 years ago!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - I'm getting married in July to a man I love so much and have been with for over three years long distance. We met when his job brought him overseas and we have been inseperable ever since. We speak on the phone everyday, sometimes up to 8 hours at a ...

He is always causing fights! What can I do to stop him treating me this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6482 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - It will be almost 2 years for my boyfriend and I in March. I love him dearly, but lately he hasn't been treating me differently. I do admit that when he began his new job, I was a bit leary of this woman that kept wanting him to work with her, but ...

We've been together 6 years and he's asking me for a 2 month break so he can be sure I'm the right one!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - hi. ive been dumped well it feels like iv been dumped he says we are on a break for exacty 2 months and that he wasnt goin to change his mind,he says if he loves me after 2 months then he'll know he really loves me..wat is this about. we've been tog...