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writes:my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half now and for the past 6 months we've been having a long distance relationship, but we've managed to be able to see each other at least once a month. the other day my boyfriend called me and told me that he was confused about our relationship and maybe wanted to hook up with other girls. after our emotional phone conversation was ended, he called me back minutes after sobbing and telling me what a mistake he had made and that he loved me more than anything and only wanted me.now we're back together but i can't stop thinking about it. just the fact that he felt this way truly disturbs me. i feel like i can't trust him, even though i've talked to him about all of this and he says that he wants to be with me more than ever, i still can't help but feel like this is going to come up again later and devistate me. HELP!
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reader, nicola79  +, writes (26 February 2007):
 I can understand that you feel hurt,and if he had done anything I would have told you to run a mile, but at least he spoke to you about it and didnt just go off and do it.
If you do love him you have to try to get over this,if you cant then maybe its time to call it a day love.
Maybe it may help if you talk to him again and make sure this is what he really really wants, tell him you have feelings and cant keep going through this.
I hope you work this out,I Will be thinking of you. xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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