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writes:HiI've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kids get on well and he's really a good bloke but the trouble is that now I don't seem to have any feelings for him anymore. There is absolutely no chemistry between us and when I'm with him, it's like I'm out with a mate/brother. And now we don't seem to have that much in common anymore. We don't live together or anything so I could just walk away. What shall I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): Dont waste anymore of his time.If he`s a nice bloke then he deserves better.Let him know how you feel,u may be suprised to hear he feels the same as you.Let him go to someone who appreciates him.
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (27 February 2007):
 Could the problem be you two got together soon after your marriage breakdown?, without there being enough time to heal before moving on? I guess after 4 years, if you are only feeling "sisterly feelings", then yes, perhaps it`s time to reflect; and possibly move on. Please consider the children though, as they have obviously spent time together, and got on well. If you did split with your boyfriend; would it be possible that the children could still see each other? Please let us know what you decide, and how you are doing. With Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): Find something incommon with him! then talk about it but if that doesnt work leave you are obviosuly not appreached.
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