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writes: I am in love with a man 16 years older. We've been living in for 3 years now.When we first got together, he said he wanted to get married and have children but every time i tell him i'm ready to start a family he thinks of some reason to put it off.He now tells me he's terrified of the responsibility that comes with having a child but he realises that it is not fair to me if we dont have a child.I'm confused!What does he really want? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (28 February 2007):
I think that your man of 3 years is getting comfortable with just you two. And he might want to have children with you, but not at this time. I wouldn't give up the dream of having children with him. Just don't bring up that subject of having a child...and he might just surprise you and bring it up himself!
Good Luck
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