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writes:me again been here before. basically i been split from my boyfriend for 2 mounths after a 2 year and a half year relationship. He wanted me to wait for him till he was ready to settle down, in the end i said i wouldnt put my life on hold for him. Now he keeps sayin that he missis me and wants to meet up, he suggested a hotel and obviously i though sex but he said thats not what he wants he just wants to spend some time with me, i belive him i just dont no whether to do it, it seems a bit weird cause we aint actually together anymore and i no il get attatched again. help im so confused Reply to this Question
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reader, maofone  +, writes (28 February 2007):
i would say that if he's suggesting a hotel-he wants to do more than talk.he could've said a anywhere else but a hotel....dont trust him girl.he wants you back on his own terms.you are not some old dishrag that he can just pick up and use whenever he feels like it
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 i really understand your fears. he maybe genuine with his proposal and he might not. which means you need to look after your feelings, i think tell him how you feel about all this and you suggest you meet somewhere in a coffee house where you will feel comfortable because when you love someone its very easy to be taken advantage of. so avoid this by taking control of this meeting. then take it from there whether you want to take this further or not.
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