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writes:I have been with her for 4 years and dont know how to approach another woman after the breakup, wat do i do and what do i say if i am interested in another girl.Also she heard a rumor that i was checking another girl while we broke up and she was pissed what does this mean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): It's never easy to start dating again after a lengthy relationship. One thing to consider is whether you're really "over" your ex-gf before you pursue another woman. Inevitably, things can get very messy and downright tiresome when you start seeing someone else and you're still into your old girlfriend.
In any event, if you are ready to start seeing other women, then, it's always nice if you have something in common with them. So, perhaps, you could join a film club, an art club, a s & m club (jk). Whatever you're into. Then, when you see a woman you like, you can talk about the "thing" you're both into.
If you go out bar-hopping, it's always a dodgy business. But, if you're into one-night stands, then go for it. Just try not to use one-liners and stupid cliches to meet her. It's much nicer if you just start talking about politics, music, movies, clothes, anything but stuff like, "Oh, hi, I love your sweater. I wish I were that sweater." Egads, that's pitiful.
Good luck.
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