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writes:My girlfriend broke up with me so I could pursue my dreams/ambitions/career/life. She tells me she still loves me but wants me to be happy. I trust and believe her and her motives. I still love her more than anything. If I left, in a perfect world, and if I'm lucky we'd be reunited and be together again but it'd take at least 3 years. What should I do? My future or my soulmate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): I love this guy but i cheated on him and now he cant trust me. I know that he wants to be with me because he tells me all the time. But he doesnt know if he can trust me. i want us to be together but im not sure what to do.should i leave him alone and just let him do his thing, or should i try harder?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): Thank you for your answer. I guess I forgot to mention that we had a long distance relationship for about 9 months and then we spent 3 months together. Those 3 months were wonderful for both of us but because of immigration issues things are made difficult for us in that area. So the situation remains, her career is in the US and it's easiest for me to pursue mine in Europe.For some reason she seems to think that she has to break up with me, to consider us not a couple anymore, for me to move on with my life while I am trying to convince her otherwise. I know a ld relationship for 3 years is going to be hard but I am willing to give it a shot.You know how people always tell you "You just know it when you've found the right person". Well I used to think those people were nuts and had no idea what they were talking about. Now I do, I just know.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (28 February 2007):
 this are just two things you cant compare because you cant live without the other. i take it you guys decided against a long distance relationship? why dont you try that if u love each other so much there so many good testimonies of success ld rships. but anyway thats my opinion because i hate it when two people who love each other so much cant even compromise to be together. anyway like you said if you are meant to be together you will be reunited later in life.
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reader, mills  +, writes (28 February 2007):
I am in the same situation but reversed i am the one that has been dumped because my ex wants to persue his dreams. in my opinion you should do what makes you truly happy although i can not understand why you can't have a girlfriend at the same time. It sounds as if you will regret not giving it a try. either way take a chance.
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