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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am 21 and my husband is 23, we have two kids and a wonderful marriage BUT..... We barely have sex anymore. We used to do it up to 2 times a day. Now he says he is tried and no in the mood. I know he isn't cheating so what do I do to help him get in the mood. I got so used to having it as much as we did, now I don't know what to do. Can someone please help.....
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reader, cd206  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 It's natural that as the relationship goes on you'll have sex less. Also, the kids are quite likely wearing you both out so that he doesn't feel like it when you finally get to bed. Can someone else look after your kids one night so you can have the house to yourselves? Maybe he's anxious about sex when one of the kids could walk in on you? Obviously lending your kids to someone isn't a long term solution but it might work occassionally. Remember that the average sex count for couples is three times a week so you're probably not that much under unusual.
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