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writes:I Like This Girl(Emma) But the only problem is that she's going out with my best friend (Carl). Recently Carl's been treating Emma really bad. Carl's Moved to the other side of the country and they're trying at long distance relationship. But lately it's been falling apart for lots of reasons. Emma told me that she dosent love him anymore. And my feelings for her are only getting stronger. Then she told me she liked me. Somehow this got round to Carl and he's telling me to keep away from Emma (me and Carl arn't that close anymore) . Which is hard cos i've got most of my classes with her. Emma's talking about leaving Carl for me. But i'm really confused. I guess i don't know what i want to happen. Can someone please help me?!
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 One thing that I have to say is I hope the names you posted in your question is NOT the real names of your friend and his gf! That is not only a bad practice to get into, but a dangerous one!
Loving the girl of your best friend is a sad situation! And since Carl found out about the feelings you have for Emma, your friendship with him isn't close any more.
I think that you should take time away from her to really think if you really want to have a relationship with her. Just remember that your friendship with Carl will end entirely with your decision....are you willing to do this? Search your heart and decide if this is really True love you feel for Emma. You are still young and have the rest of your life ahead of you.
Remember you could be missing out on another girl who is waiting just around the corner that you might have stronger feelings for than you have for Emma!!
Good Luck and God Bless you!!!!!
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reader, llusting4him  +, writes (30 April 2007):
i think you should talk to emma tell her you need to spend time away form each other so you can both decide if this is really what ye want just cos things aren't going well in her relationship doesnt mean her bf (ur mate) doesn't love her if she doesn't love him she should tell him and not leave you to take the brunt of his pain and anger stop acting like kids be adults and face the situation i hope ye sort it good luck
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