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writes:HELP!!! i really like this guy im living with, and we are in a sexual relationship. over the easter holidays he was texting me all the time and we arranged to do a few things, like watch a film and go for a drink. when we got back to uni, he's been really different, he hardly talks to me, accept before and after sex, we havent done any of the things we planned to do. he won't reply to any of my messages and im starting to get annoyed with myself,as i feel i keep chasing him, i cant get him out of my head!! i've tried talking to him but it feels as though im being more paranoid than anything..is this the case or is he just leading me on until he finds someone better?
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 You stated that you live with him....and he hardly talks to you at all until before and after sex? I think you should take charge of the situation and demand an explanation as to why he is treating you this way.
Or you could try giving him the same treatment he has been giving you...stop messaging him and pretend that you don't really care that much (even though you really do) Just act as if you are not interested in him anymore. This might work and he will come around...curious why you stopped trying to talk to him!
But if he keeps on treating you the same way as he has, then he very well could be leading you on...only using you for sex!! I just hope in your case, that he isn't using you!! You deserve to be treated with respect!!!
Remember this....people usually want something that they can't have...that is, until they get it...and realize why they ever thought they wanted it in the first place!!!
Good Luck and God Bless You!!!!
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reader, NJmomabear +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Instead of head trippin, why don't you take charge and tell him that your unhappy with how your treated? Never be afraid to push that envelope. You'll waste alot less time in the wrong relationships.
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