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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I'm married but involved with a 25 year Russian girl. How do I know if my feelings for her are true? How do I know if I still love my wife? Should I try having a baby with my wife to improve our marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - How to start...I am 44 years old and have fallen in love with a 25 year old Russian girl who I met in Moscow while working there for 2 years. I am married (for 18 years) and my wife has never been able to have children. We have recently started...

She said she didn't have a Facebook page and lo and behold, I find pictures of her with another guy! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - Ok so I dont have a huge problem persay with this,more rather I want some opinions on the matter. Ive been seeing this girl for about a week now,weve been talking for over a month now and things seem to be going well. Last Saturday we went...

Younger colleague who has a girlfriend asked me to a football game and wants me to meet his family! What is he doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am friends with a much younger man at work we have never dated i heard he has a girlfriend. he asked me to a football game 5 months from now and wants me to meet his family what does it mean? what is he doing? ...

I want Steve to be MY best friend, not his

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - So I'm an 18 yr old male and really good friends with this kid steve. I really want him to be a close friend of mine, and be each others absolute best friends. However theres a problem, hes already best friends with another kid who I dont ...

I already have a partner but have a friend who wants a friends with benefits relationship with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. i need some help. I am a mother of two, in a great relationship with a guy i adore. we have been together 8 years, and the kids are from a previous relationship. so heres where my problem begins, we have a mutual friend and recent...

I really like two women. One is available. The other isn't ready for a relationship right now. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - I need some help! I am a single male. I was divorced ten years ago. I got out of a long term relationship two years ago. I have had time on my own and I am ready to date again. This is my problem. I have two lady friends. Both are attractive a...

Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time ...

My best friend is my ex, and to make matters more complicated I'm madly in love with her brother, who also has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I'm in a really complicated situation. I'm a 22 year old female who is madly in love with my best friend/ex-girlfriend's brother. Confused already? Me too.. I'm not a lesbian; I'm far from it. But when I was in high school, my best friend told...

I had sex with this girl, but I have a girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I was camping with a bunch of people and one of the guys brought his girlfriend and her friend. Her friend was cute and very flirty. I have a girlfriend we've been together a couple months. Every time me and my girlfriend have sex I don't cum which ...

In love with 2 totally different men... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - 3 months ago my (ex) fiance broke up. We had been fighting a lot and it came to a head. He had said too many nasty things that I could not get out of my head. I just couldn't deal with them. I am still so in love with him and just yesterday w...

Best friend's girlfriend trying to get rid of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - This is going to be very long explanation so sorry in advance. This is about my best friend/crush (I'll call him C from here on to avoid confusion). C has told me he is bi and I have told him I'm gay. About a year ago C broke up with his girlfriend. ...

Do I try with my best friend or go for a new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - A while ago my best friend and I gave it a shot together. We were liking each other very much and we spent every second together, so we thought we could also try to make a relationship between us work... But there are a few things I can't deal wit...

He is a good husband but a womanizer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - about 5 years ago my husband and i had been not intimate with each other because he was busy with his married gf but the affair stopped 2 years ago. he got another young gf after that and told me three months ago she was pregnant.he is a good ...

What is the best way I can persuade her to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I need a quick answer to this problem, any advice is appreciated. I am going to have a one on one meeting with my girlfriend this week, she is going to decide between myself and another man. Im assuming her mind will be made up What is the bes...

I am feeling guilty over my friend with benefits!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Hi I just need some advice on this please have I been unfair in this situation I was in a fwb for 14 months which I wasn't happy with as I was left feeling so used all the time then I found out by three people that knew him that he was married he ...

These two men complete me, but having just one kills me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - I've been In a relationship for a year now and it's wonderful. We are average, happy, fight over the silly things, kiss and makeup over nothing. In all honesty it's great... But I'm in love with two men. My boyfriend "Steve" and my best guy frie...

Should we have a MMF threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - mmf 3some inquiry my girl and i have been together for 4 yrs now, and i recently found out that she has a fantasy about having a mmf 3sum. we talked about it, and it seemed hot to me. i love her very much, but the idea of having her being with a...

He still dreams about his old love interest, what does this mean?

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24 May 2012 (F) - My BF of 2 yrs woke up in the middle of the night, told me he had a bad dream about old memories. When he came back to bed I asked if it had to do with his unrequited love interest from 4 yrs ago, he said "yes". Should I take this to mean he's ...

Torn between two boys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Recently there are 2 guys playing in my head. I don't know which one do I really like. They are both my friend. The first guy I've known him for like 4 years now and he is one of my close friends. He liked me for 4 years and still do. I didn't lik...

I'm in love with my boyfriend but I miss my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriend but I miss my ex. My ex and I dated for one year and broke up 15 months ago. I met my boyfriend 6 months ago and we have been dating for 4 months. My emotions are clear yet they confuse me. I'm in love with my boy...

Sometimes I want to call the other guy just for a kiss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - The story goes like this, i have been dating a certain guy for a year now, the problem is he cheated me twice the second time i decided that we should seperate for a while and that i needed a break. Along that seperation period, i got into another ...

Is my jealousy valid over this girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I think my boyfriend may like his female friend (FF) He's known her about 6-12 months before me, but never really saw her face to face, until he went to school. He met her in school about 1 month, before meeting me. Here's what he's done: ...

I saw my crush holding hands with another girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Omg...I just saw my crush and another girl, they were holding hands, I can't control my anger or whatever I'm feeling. But I have a boyfriend I don't Like him as much as I like my crush. But He's ok though. help I don't know what to do, I though...

Should I go back to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - So i was with this guy for two years and then he decided to join the air force and the closer it got to hi leaving for basic the more he pushed me away and we fought finally we broke up. A week and a half later he's dating this other girl and three ...

My wife has guy friends and our sex life is terrible! should I give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - Hello All! Need some help with this one. My wife of 4.5 years wants to be able to spend the night at guy friends house. Heres the story, Throughout our relationship she has always had a close guy friend. Usually guys that will dote on h...

I think my Bf should find someone better. How can I handle my jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Well I've been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months and he's the nicest guy ever we get on so so well and everything should be perfect if it wasn't for my jealousy. Ever since I split up with my ex boyfriend I've been so paranoid because my ex h...

Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by...

He says it is over. I am broken inside. What can I do? I hurt so much inside.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend. We were together for two years. I gave him my all. I saw sides of him no-one else cared to see. I looked after him when times went bad. I gave him everything he wanted. I tried to always make him smile. I ordered univ...

Family Feud and my husband is siding with his sister against me. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have had a very bad falling out with my sister in law. We never liked each other anyway but the last time I have seen her we had a massive disagreement. My husband sided with his sister against me which added to me being upset. Since then I have...

I agree I'm not mother of the year but what do I do now in this extremely messed up situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

18 May 2012 (F) - Almost three years ago I started what I would call an emotional affair with a man that I went to school with. I was 34 at the time and I am now 37. I have two children from a previous marriage and three with my current husband. We have been m...

I've been interested in my friend for over 3 years and our mutual friend asked me not to tell her yet, only for me to find out that he's been having sex with her!! I feel so betrayed by both of them!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

17 May 2012 (M) - I have been interested in a girl for over three years. I've never looked at another woman the same way. We are very good friends and we share a mutual friend. The reason I never said anything to her was because I discussed it with our mutual friend ...

My boyfriend thinks I cheated on him but I didn't!! I was with the other guy just to pick out a birthday gift for my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

17 May 2012 (F) - So I'm 18 and my Boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 15. His birthday is coming up in about 3months and I wanted to get him something special for his birthday. And he's been wanting a guitar since forever. So I was planning on getting him ...

Why do I not respect myself ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) - This is so embarrassing: I am in my forties, a grown up woman, an excellent mother, I have been told my son is a credit to me, I raised him on my own. My problem: I dated a cheating lying man for 5 years on and off, on and off as I wanted to e...

How do I deal with my insecurity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4572 days ago

15 May 2012 (M) - Hi all I realised lately when going out with my new gf (very attractive) I get silent and awkward when she speaks to a other guys. I am a quite guy and my friends told me that they can see me becoming different (facial expressions) in ...

My Indian family, my Pakistani ex gf who still lives at my place, my American girlfriend who's treated like an outsider and me...its a wreck!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

15 May 2012 (M) - I'm 21 years old, turning 22 this year. My girlfriend is 20, and turning 21 this year. We've been together for 3 years, and I want to ask her to marry me within the next week or so. Here's the problem. I'm Indian, and she's American. My p...

Which guy should I choose? The one who is on and off with his ex? Or Mr nice guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

15 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need advise for this relationship to come to conclusion.. I've met this guy for almost a year when he used to be with his ex, they were having problems during the time we met. We seemed "click" and we're happy when we're together. ...

Two girls, good friends, If I ask the one I like out, I think I'll upset and annoy the other one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

14 May 2012 (M) - Hey, there are these two girls that like me (im not trying to be big-headed or anything) and the problem is that they are good friends and and don't think I could go out with one and not upset and annoy the other and I do like one of them. Any ...

My married love won't leave her husband but doesn't want to let go of me either

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

14 May 2012 (M) - I am involved with a woman that is married and she says she is still madly in love with her husband but yet she says she has fallen in love with me. The chemistry between us started sometime around October 2011 in which she started saying things to ...

How do I navigate my way through a love triangle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4572 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) - So, my story starts 2 years ago. I met this guy who was a bit youger than me, let's call him X, we became friends and then we started dating (sorry for my english, i'm not from america). Everything was perfect for about 1 year, we shared a lot ...

I noticed that my boyfriend calls one of his female friends crazy names! Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4574 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I noticed that my boyfriend calls one of his female friends crazy names, its on texts - she has a boyfriend and they are all friends too. He calls he things like 'gizz guzzler' 'rug muncher' and i cant even remember what else i saw. She ca...

My boyfriend lied about his online female friend, so I blocked her on his account!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

11 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys im kinda in a tough postion sorry for it being long. Iv been with my bf for a year and i found out by our mutual friend a couple months ago that my bf was sexting another girl. I gave him another chance but told him he better delete and ...

Don't want to cheat. Don't want to upset my Bf, who I love. So how do I handle that I also love another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 May 2012 (F) - Ok this is my first question. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for four months but lately I have been in love with another. And the feelings I have towards him is the same towards my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to ...

In love with my cousin but she has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 May 2012 (M) - I am in love with my cousin she lives with us i want to tell her but she has a boyfriend. i really want her she is 19 and i am 18 i really don't know what 2 do?...

She won't go out with me because her friend likes me. I'm fed up of considering other people's thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

9 May 2012 (M) - I have finally met another girl I really like after I had a bad experience 6 months ago. We get on really well but when I asked her on a date recently she replied. "I would love to however, one of my friends really likes you. I knew this before...

I'm dating 3 guys and having sex with them all!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - well im currently dating 3 guys and have sex with all, im not proud of it , but i was the average good girl who loved a guy with my all, and in return he cheated and caused lots of heart aches,anyhow i started of as friends with all and well, i feel ...

Connection with fiance is lost and now I've slept with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - hi everyone this gets really complicated! a previous question i asked helps to explain the background of our relationship. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/amnesia-stole-four-years-of-my-life-and.html i am supposed to be getting married t...

What are your thoughts on opposite sex room mates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 May 2012 (F) - My long distance boyfriend wants to move in with a female roommate his age (he's never met her, he found her on craigslist). I'm trying to be cool with it, but for some reason I'm kind of having trouble with it. On the one hand I do trust him, but ...

How do I fix it, I kissed another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 May 2012 (M) - Well I messed up pretty good last night and need some advice. I've been with my gf for 7 months. I love her with all my heart. When we're together there's no where else I would rather be or with. I went out last night with some buds and got ...

My boyfriend is with me but looking for hook ups!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 May 2012 (F) - I am stuck. I have been with this man for 19 months with him 6 nights a week. We do a lot together. I know his family, they love me. We say I love you but I thibk I am seeing a serial dated. I have his voice mail password an when he goes out he ...

I no longer love my boyfriend and have met somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 May 2012 (F) - so a little about myself I am 20 currently pay for everything on my own and ive been taking care of myself since I was 18. I have a puppy.and a fish. NOW for the issue..... ive been allowing my current bf to live with me. he is my highschool ...