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writes:Recently there are 2 guys playing in my head. I don't know which one do I really like. They are both my friend.The first guy I've known him for like 4 years now and he is one of my close friends. He liked me for 4 years and still do. I didn't like him at first cause he is kind of a player and all but since last year he changed so much. He used to text me everyday last year which suddenly I got annoyed because he text me like everyday until he would ask questions like what are you doing or eating almost everyday!! So this year well, he lost his phone and we got closer. He is just really sweet to me until everyone in our class thinks we are a couple. He is always there to help me, defend me. No guy was ever that sweet to me before. Then today, he was playing guitar practising and I stared at his eyes and all of a sudden it seems like I actually do have feelings for him after all this years. He also always ask me to go out with his group of friends from other school which I'm not close to so I would give stupid reasons not to go. I just don't click with them.The second guy has always been in my school but we only became friends this year.(not very close) He is crazy and funny but kind of a bad student in school. I was thinking about him one day and I told myself that no I don't like him and all of a sudden during dinner my family and his family are close friends and we're having dinner together (as if it was a sign!!). It was awkward. After that day, he started staring at me constantly and playfully touching my hair and often come up to me just to say hi. I don't know if he likes me but when he stares at me I just get very nervous and shy. I often think about him at home and everything.Both of them are pretty popular and not a very good student. I'm a shy petite girl and not very popular. I am not close with their friends at all. I'm in the same class as the first dude but different with the second want. Help me I don't know what I want!?!? I have never even been in a relationship before. Or maybe I should just let both of them go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks!! :)
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reader, 00greena  +, writes (24 May 2012):
 Hi,
When reading through the paragraphs about both boys. I am able to read in between the lines and analyse you. And from that, I can report that boy number 2 is the one that excites you more! But boy number 1 is the one that you have developed a trust for. So whilst boy number 1 would be the option you would go for if you were listening to your mind. But if you listen to your heart then boy number 2 would be the one you choose.
If you have never been in a relationship before. My advice would be to just go for it. Dont be cautious, Dont be scared. The reason I say that is because your so young. Statisticly you will have many relationships before you find the actual one you settle down with. Each relationship teaches you valuable life lessons so the more you learn the happier you will be in later life.
Andy
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