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writes:The story goes like this, i have been dating a certain guy for a year now, the problem is he cheated me twice the second time i decided that we should seperate for a while and that i needed a break. Along that seperation period, i got into another relationship because i thought it would lessen stress. After 2weeks my first boyfriend came begging for one more chance, i accepted because i still loved him then i chose to break with the other one. Now my boyfriend seem to have changed but im nolonger interested in any romantic actions, instead i often find myself longing for the other guy's kisses, hugs,touch e.t.c, sometimes i feel like to call him just to ask for a kiss. What should i do please help, i think i love them both. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much i know your advices will work, thanx a lot...
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reader, onlyzoe  +, writes (23 May 2012):
Hmm.. If it were me, I wouldn't give another chance but that's just me! I don't know your whole story. I believe fully that people can change. Witnessed it myself. But if there is one thing I learned, it's that if you really loved the first guy and you really love the 2nd guy who came into your life, chose the 2nd one. You wouldn't of fallen in love with him if you were really "in love" with the first one. You do what makes YOU happy. Once a cheater, always a cheater. (just my opinion) If you don't have any romantic intentions for your boyfriend but instead for the other guy, he's probably the one that you love. Don't get stuck on the past but move forward and be with someone who ruins your lipstick, not your mascara. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2012): hey dear don't hurt yourself with any casual decision. and i think its not bad to love two guys at a time, but dating two guys at a time is not that good. have you thought of what might happen if one of them gotta know you have another guy besides them? i guess the answer is "no" you might lose the both of them...
so i'll advise you to take a large breathe, and decide who is the best of both worlds. or if u like, take two papers with each of their names above and write what u like in them(each person on a seperate sheet) altogether with their qualities. at the end compare them and make your choice before it is too late. i know that somewhere in there lies the name of the person u really want to be with...
wish you the best of luck...
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reader, one woman guy  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 well...i think you don't love both of them...i think you love the other guy.those feelings who have for your boyfriend are residual feelings of the time you had with your bf before both of you decided to take a break.i think you should tell your boyfriend you don't love him anymore.u have to tell the other guy you love him.longing for the other guys touch is a bit unfair to him.but its his fault.if he would have never cheated,u would have never taken a break.i left my ex cause she cheated on me.trust me..a cheater can never change.they may pretend they have changed but will cheat on you in future.BRAK UP WITH YOUR BF and TELL the other guy YOU LOVE HIM!!
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