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writes:so a little about myself I am 20 currently pay for everything on my own and ive been taking care of myself since I was 18. I have a puppy.and a fish. NOW for the issue..... ive been allowing my current bf to live with me. he is my highschool sweetheart we are going on 5 years together. I am strongly losing interest. He is not treating me right and I kno that but I dont want to let go. I have love for him but I dont feel in love anymore he doesnt.take me out or help me with bills or even has his own car. I Met someone hes 33single successful in school and attractive. My QUESTION IS WHAT SHOULD I DO LEAVE THE MAN I LOVED FOR SO LONGAND TAKE A RISK OR PLAY SAFE AND LOSE A GREAT OPPORTUNITY????? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 May 2012):
 Technically, you've already moved on. You've met this man already and you said you, "LOVED" (past tense) your boyfriend.
You need to tell him it's over. Yeah, high school sweethearts is sweet..but you have grown out of him. It's just not made to last.
Be a grown-up and at least give him a 30 day notice to get his things and move out.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 May 2012):
 Find out why your boyfriend is unmotivated right now, and see if it is just a phase or is he using you. Ask him how you can remain attractive to him if he has no ambition. Tell him you expect him to pay bills or he has to go. Say you don't want to sound like a landlord but unfortunately he is not acting like a mature boyfriend. Listen to what he has to say first then make a decision about the relationship.
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