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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I cant move on, and she's gone back to her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (M) - why do i still feel bad ? my ex dumped me for the second time about 8 months ago to go back to her ex. in a way i blame myself . i fell for her again very qiuckley, she never really let go of me , texting me , stringing me along , i was in...

He thinks its okay to toy with my emotions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Why the need to hurt me? My ex and i broke up a few months back, it wasnt a good relationship, he had been hurtful and abusive to me, we also had kids which is why i choose to end it. He has continued to try and get back with me even though he still ...

Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, tel...

Am I just wanting something I can't have or am I in the wrong relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Im a 24 year old with a little girl. I'm feeling extremely mixed up at the moment. I recently got back together with my little girls daddy (he is 42) who I've known for the last 8 years. In that time we've had an awful lot of problems, break up, ...

New committed guy in the pic but I am missing an ex who is obviously bad for me... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I’m sorry that this is of essay length but I’m really very unhappy and need advice desperately. I was involved in a very intense and passionate but turbulent relationship with a man whom I could never quite understand. He had three long relat...

Is it ok to flirt with someone so young whilst doing business? Or am I just jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I was on my partners computer tonight sending email for him on his instructions as he is away when a message came up saying Sally was wanting to talk. I clicked on link and I saw there were messages dating back a few weeks. I was surprised by what I ...

The three-way relationship seems to be slowly excluding me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - Need advice on a three way relationship. I am a straight guy dating a now bi girl, another girl came into our life and we both took her into our relationship. Only she's more gay than bi so her and my gf spend a lot more time together than I do with ...

Is something going on between my B/f and his second cousin? What did those text messages mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I’d like some input. I, begrudgingly, checked my boyfriend’s phone back in October because I had the strange feeling I couldn’t trust him. I found some text messages he had sent to his second cousin, but they were so obscure that I couldn’t tell for ...

I cheated because fiance ignored me now he's being all sweet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - HI so my problem orginally started out simple, my fiance of a handful of years didnt pay any attention to me, lacked any interest in me, didnt want to do anything with me and wanted to drink everyday he had off. I pretty much feel like it was my ...

How do I snap out of thinking about my former crush? I know this is a fantasy and it isnt fair on my boyfriend to think like this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - About 6 years ago, during my last year in law school I met this guy who I ended up having the biggest crush on. We had one class together and I schemed a little so as to end up in his study group. A few weeks into the semester I found out that he ...

I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone...

Will he cheat with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Here I go: I meet him at work(we worked in different dep) We started talking and doing activities together. Sex came in the picture, everything was fine, we started going for lunch at work, seeing eachother after work for movies, drives out of t...

I started to love him, but its complicated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - First thanks for reading and please answer :) I am 20 and before the graduation. I decided that I will continue my studies in the movie-field as I always wanted to be a director. So, I chosed the school and applied for a course. On the course t...

My sex buddy and me kissed other people and then had sex with each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I have a sex buddy , were a little bit more cause he holds me threw the night when I have to leave he pulls me by the waist in bed just to fall asleep next to him, we hold hands and watch movies we are so close and are always there for each other. ...

I was tired of being his mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of nine months, I was tired of being his mother. I did everything for that kid, and he appreciated none of it. I wasn't happy at all in the relationship. I was belittled and treated wrongly. I paid ...

I want to change to stop this happening again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - boy keep using me and its making me so depressed, theres this boy iv been texting a while now and he stated clearly he didnt want a gf but he did like me, we only met up once, as we do live about a hour drive from eachother. i accepted this...

I try to be nice but he takes everything the wrong way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Two friends, one guy? I like this guy that my best friend and I hang out with all the time. I am so confused by the way he treats me. I don't know if he likes me or my friend. He's really nice to her He treats my friend like his buddy. He playf...

Is my guy friend jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help sorting this out. I realized after almost a year of knowing him, that I have a small crush on my guy friend. We share and talk about everything, including moments where he will come over for takeout and eat at my house ...

She's a real sweetie, should I wait until she breaks up with her boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

24 March 2012 (M) - i like this girl i sit with in my class. she's really sweet and she's always hugging me, even messes with my leg under the table, we go the same way home so we do talk a lot . the problem is i think she has a boyfriend. recently they've been walking ...

Am I worrying unnecessarily about his female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - okay im really sorry if this is too long, so ive been with my boyfriend for 9months and i love him to bits. He tells me he loves me all the time. But im really worried at the moment. He's acting differant and he was talking with his parents and they ...

I don't know who to stay with, ex or current boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - hi i was in love with one boy for four years . i have a physical relation ship with him .but he changed (smoking and drinking).suddenly i met an another person and i fell in love with him but still i used to miss my ex boy frnd like anything...

How do I clear this mess up? Do I tell the guy that asked me out, that I have my eye on someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - Hello. Thanks for clicking. I will try and make this as quick as possible. A few weeks ago a guy came into a bar i work in (i will call him T). There was a chemistry, a connection, and it was great. He introduced himself to me, shook my hand, a...

My husband blames stress for the cold sore on his lip but it seems highly doubtful, given his closeness with his co-worker. What do you guys think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I need some advise on cold sores. (Okay, let's call them what they really are Herpes.) I have been with my husband for 7 years and not once has he ever had one. But then about a year ago a younger woman got a job at his office. I didn't worry about ...

My wife agreed to introduce this third woman into our sex life to spice things up, but now I have feelings for her. My insecure wife is fine with other women but not this one, why doesn't she want me to be happy?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

22 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married 14 years. Pregnant at 17 but in love at the time. Because of the diffucultys of being young parents we went through a lot of struggles. I feel this had a registering effect on some of our marriage because of the ...

Sudden change in behavior of my girlfriend since her friend came on the scene.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4657 days ago

21 March 2012 (M) - hi, i have a girlfriend for 3 months, she's chinese and im not but im an asian too. so for the first two months everything was cool but suddenly she just changed telling me that because of her mood swings. after that she told me that she's helping ...

Will it work out with this guy I am dating or my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

21 March 2012 (F) - So i have a few dilemmas.com Dilemma #1: I have been dating this guy, who lives 7 hours away, for about 4 months now. I feel so in love with him. He is my evrything and I want to be with him so bad. My problem is I also have a daughter with my ex so...

Is she jealous of her best friend being with my best friend because she has feelings for him, or is she jealous of their engagement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (M) - well im not sure how to explain this its kinda odd i suppose and may make me look like an a$$ but it bothers me and i need a lil help ive been datin my gf for about 2 years and her best friend is now engaged to my best friend which tore our f...

My boyfriend is too friendly with girls on Facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F) - My husband gets on Facebook and Ive noticed he's being a little to friendly to the girls. And I'm getting worried should I talk to him the demand access. To his page or keep sneaking on waiting for when he might mess up ive even thought about making ...

I told my boyfriend about having a lesbian encounter.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

19 March 2012 (F) - hi, i am in college and i have been dating my amazing boyfriend for almost 10 months. he is the best man in the world and i know he was put into my life for a reason. well i went to this girls house who is a lesbian and she started kissing me and ...

Will we start a relationship soon? his mother was not happy I gave him a hickey!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

18 March 2012 (M) - dear cupid it has been a week and i finally talked to my crush who i gave a hickey to by accident. i called him i asked him how his has been and hes like i have been good and then i asked how his mother was because his mother didnt like that i g...

I saw him about to kiss another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

18 March 2012 (F) - I have been dating a guy for sometime now. He claims he loves me but sometimes im uncertain about it. One of his friends told me that he does.Yesterday, I saw him closely with a lady, They were too close as if they were about to kiss When I saw them ...

Men, would you cheat on your partner if you knew you wouldn't get caught?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

18 March 2012 (F) - This is a question for the men that have been married for quite some time or are in a long term relationship. Are you truely happy/satisfied with your wife sexually? I was reading an article the other day about "spicing" your relationship up....

I'm 26 and my husband is looking for younger women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 March 2012 (F) - I thought I forgot about my husband, maybe ex husband hasn't divorced yet. So technically not yet. I am not into divorce and I think that marriage should be sacred that is probably why I'm still pushing and hoping that we can still get back together...

Open Relationships and Infidelity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4662 days ago

17 March 2012 (M) - Open Relationships Do Not Always Stave Off Infidelity By Frank Kermit, Relationships Some people believe that one of the surest ways to guarantee fidelity is to only do open relationships. The premise is that people only cheat in monogamous ...

Cheating husband says I am violating his privacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F) - Hello all. My marriage has been having its fair share of problems but have been working on it. I have caught my husband twice cheating on me previously and just found out he's at it again. I wouldn't say I'm still in love with him as my feelings ...

2 guys and I have no idea which one to pick!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I can’t decide which man I want to be with! Please can you offer your advice on what I should do? There were problems in my relationship with M when I first met S. I had moved to university in a new town (though this was already plan...

He loves me but also loves his baby mama

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a guy who I know loves me but also loves his baby mother. I love him dearly but don't know if I should stay or go. What should I do? Im in a tug of war between my heart and my mind. ...

Confused with my feelings for my current partner as we are growing apart, and now there is a man from work I am starting to have feelings for. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - I'm a strong career woman with a partner for six years. Technically, we still can't get married because we don't have divorce in our country and I got married when i was pretty young to someone whom i have been separated for about 11 years now. i ...

My boss is married. He rubs and pats me at work. What are your thoughts? He's older but attractive to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - I've been working at a local restaurant in my town for almost two months now. It's the first real job I've ever had. I've been recently getting vibes from my boss. Last week, we had a moment. The area behind the counter is very narrow. My co-wo...

Why was I everything to him one minute, and forgotten the next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - my boyfriend told me he was in love with me. After three weeks he sent roses to my house, met my family, made a big fuss over me. A month later told me he didn't think we were on the same page. we broke up, but still talked and saw each other un...

Is this cheating? should I say anything to her or let it go?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

13 March 2012 (M) - I NEED SO MUCH HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!A couple weeks ago my GF and I broke up. We broke up for the weekend. She thought/thinks I am not the type to go hook up with other girls. Just because of my past and just who I am.. Well dating her I changed....

I quit talking to her and now she's got a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (M) - Im 19. There was this girl I wanted to be with. She would give me random hugs sometimes from behind and in the summer of 2010 I was going to join the army.. And she told me your not going to join the army We were hanging out every day. We had so...

I'm still in love with the man I had an affair with. How do I mend my broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) - Well I had been married for 15yrs before I had my affair last summer 2011. It has been so long ago that I felt any sort of connection other than friendship with my husband. I have always had to deal with mental abuse from my in laws and my husband ...

My boyfriend wants to ignore his ex's pregnancy and marry me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a brief break up in January an during our break up he had a brief sexual encounter with a young woman (she is about 25) he is 49. He also has Bipolar 2. She is now pregnant. He says he does not want anyhting to do with her ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend so he can experience the life he wants?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) - I am 27 and my boyfriend is 22. We've been together a year and a half. Recently we have been arguing because he's starting to feel like he's been missing out on his youth. I've had more partners than him and got to party and enjoy my 20s and he says ...

I don't know which guy to chose! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (?) - hi,am 22..i agreed to date my boyfiend(first ever) cos he is intelligent and has a promising future and moreso cos he was persistent but i never really loved him cos he wasnt the romantic and cute guy,just wanted him as a friend..1month into our ...

He's playing me in a FWB while cheating his Gf. How do I break it off with him and mean it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (F) - I am 32 and been divorced for about 3 years now. I have known a guy who is way younger than me as long as i can remember. He will be 20 in 2 months. We have been in a FWB relatinship since he was 18 (legal age in my state). We would fight and brea...

Should I write him? Would he really call me a drama queen if I told my real feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - my ex(x) and I broke up nearly 3 years ago we were only 16 and I was always jealous and he got drunk one night and kissed another chick and broke up. I wanted him back but the following months he just used me to make out but he wanted another chic...

Is this guy using me for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - X and i had this brother sister thing going on at first and made it very public. we got very close and we even have the same friends. later, i realized that i had a crush on him (X) i told him that one day and after a brief period of not talking ...

Am I over reacting? He's chatting to other women and telling them he loves them!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 yrs and I recently discovered he is chatting with women from the Phillippines via webcam again. This is something we got into several arguments about 4 years ago (and he promised to stop) and now I've discovered ...