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writes:I have been dating a guy for sometime now. He claims he loves me but sometimes im uncertain about it. One of his friends told me that he does.Yesterday, I saw him closely with a lady, They were too close as if they were about to kiss When I saw them I pretended not seeing it my guy was also aware of what I have seen. I decided to keep mute and stay away from him. I dont want to seem as a jealous girl, he's been callin me but I've been ignoring it. Did I do the right thing? I've not spoken to him since then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmm.. the truth is i don't want to complain about it to seem as if im a jealous girl and i reckon no man would like to date a nagging girlfriend. i just want him to realize it's because of what i saw that's why im behaving like this
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (18 March 2012):
 You don't want to end the relationship but you are ignoring him and not returning his calls? What do you think will happen if you continue that particular strategy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he's 18, i dnt wnt 2 end the relationship because im in love with him, im not sure i will ever love again if i loose him
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 March 2012):
Why not simply be honest, without drama, tell him what you saw and that you prefer to end the relationship for now, as you lack trust in him. I think that would be easier than trying to ignore him, and certainly less dramatic in the long-term.
As far as seeming jealous, well, you are feeling jealous and uncertain of him. I think this will be pretty clear as you will have stopped speaking to him right after seeing him with the other lady. He will work it out and your reaction will appear to be immature and perhaps arbitrary to him. May I ask how old he is?
I think if you cannot speak to him about your concerns then it is best to let the relationship end, only I think you will feel better about it in the longterm if you tell him why. Being firm yet honest is going to be a good skill to have later on in life, so you may as well start practicing now! You'll be amazed how much drama this can save over the course of your life.
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