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writes:dear cupid it has been a week and i finally talked to my crush who i gave a hickey to by accident. i called him i asked him how his has been and hes like i have been good and then i asked how his mother was because his mother didnt like that i gave him a hickey i understand but i really like him and dont want this to end over stupid stuff. i really like him so i said i would like to speak to your mom and he said "that wont happen because she likes you, she said that a real friend would have control and wouldnt do that" but he said that she isnt the one to hold grudges and that in time she would get over it. do you believe we will get through this and start a relationship soon?i cant imagine losing him i really like him! what should i do ???
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (19 March 2012):
 It sounds like you have a bit of an exuberant personality and perhaps this is the reason you gave him a hickey by 'accident.' Though really, giving a hickey takes a while and is easily avoidable. Maybe he's worried that you will lack self-control and will do something more visible next time? Obviously, his mom saw it and was not amused, and he wasn't really happy about it either.
How old is he and how old are you?
I think the best thing you can do is apologize to him for making his home life awkward and then give him a little bit of space to give him time to forgive you. You may get through this, don't get too hopeful. It sounds like he may not reciprocate your feelings just yet. You have to give him time to miss you and wonder what you are doing.
None of us like to imagine that we won't get what we want but it's part of life. It happens. You will be fine.
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