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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to lovin...

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

I am seeing both my boyfriend AND my ex husband and don't want to give up either one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Please help I have been in a dilemma for many years. I was married for 25 years but somehow I felt my husband did not love me. To make story short, I got really closed to a colleague and his love for me felt so strong. In parallel my husband was ...

Married woman won't leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - What do I do? This women wont back off and leave my boyfriend alone she is a married women but seems to have some interest in my boyfriend in particular like a crush or something. She is always drawing pictures for him, she comments on everything he ...

I think I like this other guy more than my boyfriend, but he keeps letting me down! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hello all :) I'm sorta of having a problem. Here we go; I have a boyfriend who is such a great boy. He's lovely and is always there for me. I don't think i could ask for anyone else better. But see, that's just it. Last week i went to a party and ...

Should I tell my new guy about the FWB arrangement with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I share a flat with one of my mates and two guy friends let's call them bob and Steve. So we hang out with my guy friends,friends quite a lot and me and one of his friends, let's call him john for now have gotton really close. After a party where I ...

My boyfriend lied about sleeping with a close friend while we were seeing each other.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently confessed that he slept with a close female friend of his. It's a little bit complicated because this girl, C, was a long time girlfriend of one of the other guys in their group of friends and she and him would often spend time ...

Does this FWB thing make me a slut?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Last year, I got to know a guy in my class, S (lets call him that for now) We hit it right off and became really good friends. To the extent that we had people asking us every few days "are you guys going out?" Our friendship progressed and we ...

Torn between the two

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - What do i say to them? So theres this guy. lets say 'David' who i liked and he liked me, we never really 'went out' but we spoke a lot and clearly both liked eachother. (we held hands a few times) After time however David gave me the impression h...

This married woman is ruining my relationship with my boyfriend! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - hi thanks for reading this please help! I've just moved in with my boyfriend and things are going great between us however the main issue we have is that he is friends with a married couple and the wife is completely obsessed with my boyfriend!!!i...

I'm pretty upset and I feel used. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - This guy (i'll call him "B") and me quit talking for six months and the other night he showed up saying sorry for it all amd wanted for to forgive him. Well, i did. He said never meant to stay out of my life that long and the whole entire time he ...

His daughter is ruining our relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I been in a relationship for 4 years he's 59 and I'm 41. I have no kids, he has 2 boys and one of his girls is 35 years old and the other 32. The one girl is a pain; she's married to an army guy and has a daughter. Her boyfriend pays her electric ...

We had our first big fight...over his friendship with another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now and had our first big fight the other night. We've been having a few communication problems in the past few weeks and we both knew that the argument was coming. It was about t...

I have doubts about my boy friend. He hasn't told his other girl friend about me. I love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - i'm 20 years old . i need help, because my boy friend told me that he hasn't told the mother of his child about our relationship. He says if she found out about us she would expect him to pay child support to her. i think he still with the ...

How will my Bf react if I tell him I want a threesome, with us and his twin brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and his twin brother. I'm so in love with my boyfriend, we have been in a relationship for 6 years and just a few months ago his brother came from italy and he was totally different, i want him but just...

How can I get this persistent other guy to leave me alone? I like a different guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - right so theres this guy who likes me, and pretty much every weekend since decemeber we have hooked up, nothing serious just like made out anyway i told him in feb i don't like him, and that i like one of his mates, who i've got with quite a few...

Gambling has taken over his life. what can I say or do? It's ruining our life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys and girls. My partner and I have been together for 11 years, we have 2 children together aged 7 and 1. We were both 17 when we got together and we had a great relationship, he did everything for me and was the perfect boyfriend. W...

Boyfriend wants to have a threesome with another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Well I have a question: My boyfriend has asked me if I would like to have a threesome... with another guy. I really dont know how to react to that, what should I do? Does that mean he is bi-curious or what? Please help me....

Should I just move on so that she can too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - I've made a mistake; what hope do I have? It's a tricky situation. I was seeing two girls, but only one (who was a close friend before) knew about the both of them. About a month into seeing the two of them, I decided to go for one who knew and...

Are they doing it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - Further to my previous question about threesomes, Sometimes I see a girl walking down the street holding hands with 2 men on both sides of her and i always wonder... Are they doing it together? Many thanks...

Women: How common is it for them to have a 3some?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

23 April 2011 (M) - Ive seen a lot of questions on this site that relate to threesomes. I have never experienced this and am curious, mainly in respect to woman's participation in this: I know it's not reality per se, however a lot of porn films show women having sex...

Found someone I love, my old friend is back, so are the old feelings, what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, i have a very big problem, you probably get it a lot here. I dont know. My problem started when i was in high school. I fell in love with my best friend, we did nearly everything together, going to the cinema and such. The only probl...

Difficult situation, we click, but he is married. What to do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I met a married man on his 50's, 10 years older ten months back. At first he told me he is divorced but admitted the truth on our 2nd month. He told me to give him 2 years to wait for him to finally divorce his wife. I always have told him to just ...

Is he just "settling" for me? And what about my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - {Moderator note: Two questions from the same poster combined} How do you know if a guy is settling for you? I think my boyfriend is settling for me. I feel like when we first met, he wasn't that into me. Even now he says that I make a good gir...

Confused about threesome.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - Hello. I never asked anything about that before, so it's kinda weird to me right now, but i really need some advice. Here's is what is going on. A few months later i had a threesome with my girlfriend and a female friend of ours and it was very ...

Should we go through with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have an excellent relationship and are very open with each other. We are both 19 and have been together since we were 15. We were talking a few weeks ago and she told me that the idea of letting guys lose their virginity to ...

In a relationship, but fell in love with someone else.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Ok, so here goes..i cant handle this thing alone anymore and i need some advice. I'm in a relationship with this guy for 3 years and we live together. I love him and everything is great apart from the usual arguments couples have. Recently i got in ...

Should I let this relationship with my ex go because of his double standards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) - I don't know what to do. I've been off and on with my boyfriend for about 6 years. Right now he is out of state because he said he needs to even though he could do his business here since it is through internet. Anyway, the last 8 months since he's ...

Her parents forced her into a marriage with a man she doesn't love, why cant she just leave him for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I was in love with a most beautiful girl who also loves me very much. but suddenly she was married with other whom she never knows (her parent's compelled her to marry). Now we love each other much more than in the past. then why can't she just ...

Love Triangle and some minor cheating....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Let me begin by painting the scenario: I broke up with my ex over a year ago. We didn't talk and didn't see eachother for a whole year. I knew she had gotten a new boyfriend about 6 months after our break up and very recently, a year since our brea...

My ex and I reconciled but she likes another guy.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - So me and my ex after a 3 month break up reconciled meaning that we went on a date, but many things have changed like the fact every since the break up she started liking this guy alot and I had sex with this girl that i liked (but regret having ...

Confused after threesome!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I had my first threesome two nights ago and now I'm very confused and slightly embarrassed and annoyed. My best male friend who is bi-sexual,J.B. and I have been flirting innocently for a very long time. We went on holidays along with some other ...

Do I try again to work it out with my husband, or focus on the new great guy I am dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - So my situation is... I was married for four years. not all of them happy but the person I married I was basically in love with since i was 16 years old. Now that I am 24 things in our lives are obviously different than they use to be. We have a ...

Should I be worried about his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Hi, my husband's sister's friend came to live with her for three weeks. Currently, me and my husband too are in his parent's house because I am due to deliver next month and will be staying there till I give birth. I don't want to be sad but I think ...

I'm not sure what do about my current relationship or this other guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - What do you think about my situation with the guy I am dating and his friend?. I'll call the guy I am dating C, and i'll call his friend J. J winks at me a lot, and I knew him before C, as I saw him in a bar once and he kept looking at me then. On ...

We're friends with benefits but does he want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Im friends with benefits with my ex boyfriend. We broke up years ago we were both really young, but now we're 16. We were fwbs before but then one of my friends asked me out, I was totally surprised as I thought he was gay. So I said yes and broke ...

How can I break up and afford to live on my own? he wants a threesome. He's over protective.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - Recently my partner and I broke up, but we still live together, he goes through my phone and expects me to have a threesome with him and one of my friends (who's a girl) He has been treating me a little child lately...xo. Here's more info I ...

Should we have a threesome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I am happily married for 12 years and sex is great.me and my husband fantasies lately of getting a man in and the thought arouse both of us but I am unsure.we have been kinky before but never had intercourse with someone else.we also are more ...

I love her but she hurt me so I don't know what to do now....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for two years now. Recently we got into a huge argument. As a result of the argument I went over her house to talk to her. I told her that I wanted to forget about everything and get try to make it work between us. She ...

Who do I pick when I want a child so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - Ok, I don't know what to do, obviously. So my question is, who do I pick? There is a really nice girl that says she loves me, and there is a girl I like a lot that also says she loves me, me and her have been dating for 4 months (on and off) and we ...

Dilemma. I want to get back with my ex, but his GF has to leave. I also want to be with my married lover, but he has to leave his wife.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - I Have a lot to say so here goes. I have a big problem with men. my ex broke up with me 6 months ago because i cheated on him with the guy i,m living with now. but this guy i,m with now well we don,t really get along. so anyway my ex is let his ex ...

Once a week is all I get. It's not enough. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - help, i love my boyfriend by lately only seeing him twice a week and its only for about 2 hours each time. he has a baby with someone else and i understand he has her weekends so i dont see him, and then works all week and then gym after work so is ...

I love one girl but I'm made for the other. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - so basically, im currently going out with this girl, i really like her and she likes me. im pretty sure i love her and i see her everyday at school and stuff. my friends dont particularly like her but thats not really bothering me. and there is also ...

He left the country and is out of contact. Why is he being so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I am desperate. He left to other country for 2 weeks to his ex, cause they have child together. I dont understand the way he told me, it caused me pain. He just sent sms before as a reply to msg that he goes for holidays and that no regrets. Now ...

I cheated and he wants me to leave her for him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - i have a girlfriend and have been going with her for 16months. however, in the 14th month i cheated on her, with another man. it turns out he was bi, and weirdly, we got on to the topic of penis. we kissed and i had sex with him. it was odd but felt ...

Retroactive Jealousy is driving me insane. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I need help in dealing with Retroactive Jealousy. I’ll keep this as short as I can. Kevin (my bf) was in love with me since school. I didn’t feel the same way and turned him down. A couple of yrs later, I fell for him and tried to approach him....

My ex cheated on me and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I'm a mess right now! Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I was cheated on by my ex and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I know it's a cliche. Anyway, I found out she was doing all this behind my back after about 5 months last year in Dec, which means she started this in Sept. No...

My ex FWB is back, but he has a GF now. I don't know how to handle his advances.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for a few years. We used to be 'friends with benefits', but then everybody found out, we both denied it like our lives depended on it, and then didn't speak for a while. Then last summer we started getting friendly, but nothing ...

Does my cousin love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - i had a crush on my cousin.since then i got into another relationship but in between there was a problem and i went to him for advice but he advised me to break up.but anyways me and my boyfriend spoke and solved the problem but he said to stay ...

Infatuated with coworker, but don't want to ruin my marriage. Any help would be appreciated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - I've been married for 10 years, we have 2 young kids and the marriage is not bad, but not in great shape either. Life is repetitive and somewhat stale. I have an infatuation with a workmate that is under control from an outsider's persp...