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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I want my ex bf to stop liking me so I can move on with my new bf. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - dear cupid okay i have been dating this guy for two months and we really care deeply about each other. but my ex boyfriend is really not liking it and he has never acted like that before he told me we are only friends and nothing more but my family ...

My ex gf's bf is being possessive because he won't allow her to hang out with me! Is this right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - Is my ex-girlfriend new guy being possessive? He won't let her hang out with me when it's just me and her. I wanted to take her out to a baseball game for her birthday and she said sure, but she'd have to ask him first. Well, it's a no go, he ...

Think my best friend likes my boyfriend... what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - i think my bestfriend wants my boifriend i have asked her but she denies it what should i do?...

She's a totally different person since she's left for school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is away at school, and we don't get to see each other that much, only a couple times a month. It seems to me she's distant at times, never returning my calls or AIMs, but she always has time to go out with her roommates to shop, party, ...

Married, but unhappy. I found some happiness and then paid the price. Is my wife looking for revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Basically, I was in a unhappy marriage for the last 8 years and we could never really talk about anything. As soon as I would try to talk about how I felt, she would turn it around and make it about her feelings or would just say I was wrong and ...

I am married and my online friend has fallen in love with me. Am I cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - i am a 29-year-old married female having a 1-year-old child. A month back i made friends with a 20-year-old male on the internet and have been in constant touch with each other ever since online and over the phone. He claims to have fallen in love ...

She is around a lot to be an EX

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I posted earlier this month and got some great advice... but still things don't seem to be getting much better. I am 24 and have an amazing boyfriend. We have been together over 10 months and we have everything I have ever wanted in a relationship-- ...

Bf keeps finishing with me over stupid little things. He seems to enjoy hurting me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - hiya...... well me n my boyfriend have been 2geva now for 6weeks. n i love him but its asif he dosent want 2 see me because he lives 20mins away n still there is always an excuse not 2 see me. and he finshes me ova stupid little things really ...

I ignored him because he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - iv sort of fallen for a guy at work in a big way and i think he feels the same hes a bit more open with his feelings because im worried. he says he wants to be with me and i ignore him because he has a girlfriend, weve had a thing for a while but ...

I just can't believe how stupid I have been

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am very unhappy with my partner. Quick rundown: We got together when I was 15, he was 18. We had a baby a year later and now live together. He has no job and I know he cheating on me with numerous people. I know I've been stupid and I want to get ...

I feel second best

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Pleasssssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him and he tells me he loves me all the time. But here is the problem: sometimes I feel like he just tells me that because I ...

I have a suspicion that my girlfriend is cheating, or am i insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I have long had a suspicion that my girlfriend is hiding something from me, cheating maybe or at the very least still talking and seeing her ex boyfriend. I can't help but ask her constantly and I know she won't tell me the that she is. She keeps ...

Should I keep seeing my Army man who may be marrying his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - i was seeing a guy on and off for 2 years. he is in the army so he travelled quite a bit. he knows i fell in love with him. i havent seen him for 13 months now, but he is back in my city for a month or so. he told me about 6 months ago that his ex ...

I am 16 and have a boyfriend, but I am in love with a 19 year old guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I really badley need help ive loved a 19 year old since january im only 16 the problem is ive just got this new bf who is sooooo amazing and i love him. i thought the 19 year old didnt like me as more than a mate but i got a text message off him 2 ...

Boyfriend of 1 month tells me he still lives with his ex. He says this is purely for financial reasons. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend, of one month, came up at the weekend, and he told me that he still has to live with his ex, he said it is over, but she stills wants to be with him. he says they sleep in separate beds, and he is only still they because he cant afford ...

My girlfriend has a male friend. I have no problem with this, but he keeps stepping on my toes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has a guy friend, I have no problem with this. But this guy is stepping on my toes. Always buying things for her, writing poems, etc. It feels like he's moving in on my territory. I try not to feel pressured. I don't want to be ...

My best friend is flirting like HELL with my boyfriend. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - My best friend just broke up with a steady boyfriend of nearly a year when the chemistry vanished and he told her he "just couldn't see things working out". This is very well and they are still close friends but my Best friend is now flirtingl like ...

I am in love with 2 women in 2 different ways, how do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I am in love with two women. one (A)whome I was in a relationship with for 15 months and another woman (B)whome I met through my ex. I started a relationship with B as i was unhappy in my relationship with A. After 4 months (although she did nothing ...

How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

24 September 2006 (M) - Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...

Torn between two guys and I am so confused, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - This is a long story so bear with me. Basically, I was dating a guy for almost three years and we broke up because he wasn't sure he saw a future with me, we were different, stuff like that. So I picked up and moved out to San Diego and was having ...

I love and want to marry this woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

24 September 2006 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I are talking again fairly frequently. For the past week we have been talking fairly regularly online and having great conversations. Me, a few of my best friends (her friends too), and her hung out last night, drinking and ...

The fact that she called makes me insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's ex called here wanting to talk to him. Her current boyfriend is being sent overseas on a peacekeeping mission and she just wanted someone to talk to. The speaker phone was on and in no way did I get the impression that she is still ...

I found sexy text messages on my husbands phone....from another man!!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - I have been married for 10 years now. We have been together for 14 total. Just last week I found text messages on his phone, being the nosey person that I am I read them. Now I wish that I had not, the messages were sex related. I do not know ...

I think a married woman at work might be falling for me. How can I let her know that I am into her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 September 2006 (?) - There is this woman at work that is married, however I believe she is very much into me. She sometimes flirts very heavy with me and then the next day or so she tones it down and acts like were nothing more than friends. She and her husband are live ...

My friend made out with the girl I really fancy. Now I dont know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 September 2006 (M) - Some friends and I went swimmng like we usually do on a friday but we took a bit of alcohol. All of a sudden the girl i fancy (doesn't know) starts crying and walks away, i try to see whats the matter but she tells me to go away, then a minute or so ...

I went through my boyfriends phone and found texts from another girl. What do I say to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - hi there! i dont know what to do!! i went into my bf's phone and read his texts which i know i shouldnt have done but his phone has been going off at all times of the day and night and i was interested to know who had been txting him all the time. i ...

I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd ...

I cheated on my husband of 14 years with his best friend. He stayed with me but now I have met someone else. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I have a a problem and don't know what to do about it I have been married for 14 years and have children, I fell in love with my husband's heart he is so giving and wanted to take care of me I was not physically attracted to him physically, but he ...

Old college friend has made me realise my true feelings for my boyfriend. Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship where I have been living with my boyfriend. We have been together over a year now I am starting to think we are not working. we are very different. I have also recently been reunited with an old college friend w...

The boy I fancy fancies my friend. Can I make him love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I met a boy and i fancy him he touches me but he said he fancys my friend what hould i do to make him love me?...

Whilst on holiday, I met a wonderful guy, then had to come back home to my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hiya, Im 19 and I've been in a realtionship now for over 3 years with a guy. He is nice but he has strayed before in the past so im finding it difficult to trust him. He tries to make decisions for me. He does try to control me. I know that he lov...

My friends girlfriend has fell for somebody else, now she plans on marrying her lover. How can I break this news to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Hi.. I have a frend who was goin around wth a gal for more than 2 yrs now. Virtually they wer engaged n both parties agrred to their relationship. But that gal realised dat she was not serious wth him. And she fell for a frend of his so called lo...

My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom. How do I get closure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom.I am having a hard time dealing with this since I have to see them both. I don't want him back, but I don't want my mom to have him either.I am jealous that mom is in a relationship. Recently, I've begun ...

We broke up because he had feelings for another girl, now he wants to resume contact, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I need help i was with a guy for two great years. we ended up breaking up cause he started having feelings for another gir and i guess he stoped loving me.I wanted to keep in touch but he did not semm to. But now he want he calls me but only cause ...

Is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3years but i like someone else that i have known for 6months. is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else? ...

I had sex with my best friends boyfriend while she was asleep in the same bed. She seemed ok with it at first, now we hardly talk.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i got really close to one of my co-workers and were like best friends and i considered her almost like a sister i never had. we go out with our other co-workers and my best friends boyfriend. so one night we got really drunk at the club and i ...

I'm 17 he's 40+ with 2 kids and a wife, is it wrong to have feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - im 17 he's 40+. he's perfect man, kind,gental,loveing,cuddly,makes you feel wanted.he is a very hands on person which is great and he made a move on me(a very effectionate kiss on the lips). i didn't mind and i realy enjoyed it. but he slightly tied ...

Boyfriend threw me out because he wanted space, his tenant takes advantage yet is still living there. Why does my boyfriend treat me like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend, he threw me out because he wanted space, wanted to do his own thing and I did his head in apparently. It was a very hard time for me. We got back together again and though he can be loving, he can also say hurtful things, ...

Hes a true sweetheart and I really want to help him, but hes so distant, should I just be patient ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Question: He started being distant, I love him and don't know what to do! I was dating a guy for 4 months. Everything was perfect in the beginning, but I moved about 2 months into it. I'm only an hr away so we still managed to see each other even ...

My boyfriend admitted he has gay relationship with his friend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 19, my boyfriend's 22 and recently he has admitted to me he had sex with his friend Johnathan. My boyfriend said he wasn't gay or even bisexual and his friend offered him £1,000 if he'd do it - which my boyfriend did; he had sex and got ...

She is so rude to me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend was divorced before I met him. He has a daughter who now lives with his ex-wife. My boyfriend and I will take the little girl out during the weekend and spend some time with her. I get along really well with her, which I'm glad. When w...

Caught in my unstable relationship and now I fancy a new girl!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 16 years old, and have been in a quite serious relationship with a girl now for over a year. But i cant really see it lasting for much longer, due to us seemingly drifting apart more each and every day. I have recently started at a new...

Is sex with and in-law incest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that i...

My husband told me that he is bisexual and now wants to explore some of his fantasies together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I’ve been searching the web for advice about having a kinky partner, and happened upon several requests for advice for partners that are chatting. Well, I have no advice, just a similar story – and now a request for advice. My husband and I ha...

He is seeing her again, but I still miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, So me and my ex boyfriend have been on and off for about the past 2 1/2 years. We are both in college, but 1000 miles apart, and the distance is the reason for the on and off. The reason why we first broke up was because he was cheating...

My boyfriend is overly jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hi every1. I'm really upset. My boyfriend is the only one for me yet he thinks I'm going to cheat. He says when lads talk to me I flirt back and act like I'm with them but this isn't the case! I'm just being polite! An example: A couple of weeks ago ...

He says he loves me but he's flirting with other girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My bf is really confusing. One minute he's sending me e-mails telling my that he's so incredibly lonely when I'm not there with him, and not being able to see/hear/touch/kiss me drives him nuts, and the next he's flirting with other girls right ...

8 yr relationship, a kid, and now he is drinking doing drugs and not coming home

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for around 8 years and have a 6 year old daughter together, and we live together. The problem is, that this man often goes off on drinking binges and ends up sleeping at other people's houses. He smokes cannabis ...

He says he doesn't want an open relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - i am not sure weather i think this way or anyone in my situation would think the same. we have been dating for the past 1 and half years and we love each other. our relationship started with online dating(we used to live very far) and it led to ...

I think my mum is having an affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I think my mum is having an affair. About 5 or 6 years ago, whilst taking my younger brother to school, my mum met this man whose son was in the class as my brother. They got talking, and my mum was having problems with her computers, this man ...