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writes: Hiya,Im 19 and I've been in a realtionship now for over 3 years with a guy. He is nice but he has strayed before in the past so im finding it difficult to trust him. He tries to make decisions for me. He does try to control me. I know that he loves me ammensly and he just wants the best for me. He paid for me to go away to America and I stayed with my family. I met a really nice guy while i was there, who is twice my age but he really made me feel special and the sex was great. I was devistated when I had to come back to the UK. Since then I have been in touch with him and speaking to him everyday. He told me that he loved me and he is coming over to the UK for a little holiday. He wants me to go over to America to live with him and I do feel like I love him. However I have a boyfiend here and since I have been back I can't bear to talk to my boyfriend. I have been avoiding him and I don't want to hurt him. I don't know what to do? Do I finish with my boyfriend? Do I move to America to be with this guy? Was it just a holiday romance? Do you think it will work out? I really don't know what do. This guy has 12 year old son. Do you think it will be to confusing for his son? Im really torn in two. I love them both but it really won't work. I don't want to be greedy I just don't know which path to choose. Either way one of them is going to be really hurt.Help me please im emotionally and mentally all over the place.Thanks *Hugs*C
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I think you need to be on your own while you sort through you head, it's really hard to make a decision while you are in a relationship with someone or what sounds like two people.
Your now home so you'll be missing the one that you can't see therefore making you feel that is the one you want to be with, and it might be but it might just be the fact one is infront of you and the other isn't.
Don't just jump into anything you may regret as this decision is the one that determinds your whole future and who you spend it with.
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