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writes: I am in love with two women. one (A)whome I was in a relationship with for 15 months and another woman (B)whome I met through my ex. I started a relationship with B as i was unhappy in my relationship with A. After 4 months (although she did nothing wrong) I ended it with B as I still have feelings for A. I really dont know what to do as I have such strong feelings for both women.Recently I slept with B and Im scared A will find out...I love both women and dont know who to choose as I love them both just in different ways.Please Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): To be honest with you...You walk away from both...as if you had any respect for either of them in the very begining...You would never have got yourself into this situation ! Be honest with yourself ...You love yourself more!
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reader, shania  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Ask yourself this...Losing one of them would be hard but which one would be intolerable to live without? You said you were in love with both of them but in different ways.My guess is you were bored with A and B gave you excitement and fun,trouble is you didn't want A to know because in your hearts of hearts you probably want or need A more....B was a distraction.I could be completely wrong but give it time and you will know who you really want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): Who can't you live without? Who do you dream about all day and all night? When you look into her eyes and tell her that you love her, do you melt? Who are you one with? When you hold her tight, do you never want to let her go? Do you believe in fairy tales? Who is your princess? Who makes your heart race? When you kiss her lips does the rest of the world vanish? Which one loves you in all those ways?
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reader, Pammie73 +, writes (24 September 2006):
Hi there,
I was in a similar situation a while back...and one method I used to help decide who I should choose was to write down all the good qualities and bad qualities of each partner.
This helps you to view these persons objectively, and understand what qualities they bring to a relationship with you.
Your next thought would be to decide on which personality traits you would ideally want in a long term partner - i.e. which traits are a priority for you (e.g. someone to love you unconditionally, always be faithful...etc).
This might help! I know it sounds quite long-winded, but it does help you to analyse the differences between each partner.
Good luck!
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):
 Although you love them in different ways there will be one that you really can't be without, one that when your not around them you crave to see them one that when your with them nothing else matters or even bothers you, that is the one you choice as that is the one that you love in all the right ways.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006): well,
you pick the one who you been with first.who loves you.who you can trust.who wont cheat on you ever.and pick the one that you think you should be with.and pick the girl who wont use you for your money.and who wont brake your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006): well,
you pick the one who you been with first.who loves you.who you can trust.who wont cheat on you ever.and pick the one that you think you should be with.and pick the girl who wont use you for your money.and who wont brake your heart.
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