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writes: My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom.I am having a hard time dealing with this since I have to see them both. I don't want him back, but I don't want my mom to have him either.I am jealous that mom is in a relationship. Recently, I've begun trying to tempt him into having sex with me so he will leave her alone. How do I let go and get closure?
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (22 October 2006):
 why an earth do you wana have sex with this man if he wanted you he would not be with your mum i understand it hurts you to see um together but having sex with him is not right neither do i agree with what ure mum as done he will be getting a kick out of this and it will all end in tears just move on get over both of um good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): this guy is winning the battle and who are the losers you and your uhmm mother .. if you continue to be part of this so called stupid game guess who will be the biggest loser in town YOU !! .. suggestions for you 1. leave them alone 2. if you're old enough (legal age) to move out then you should move out 3. respect yourself and 4. don't take bullcraps from anyone. do what is right. don't stoop down lower than the lowest level of stupidty. peace
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006):
Your mum is dispicable for having a sexual relationship with your ex-boyfriend. And you trying to tempt him into having sex to leave her alone is similarly quite distubing.
You need to be careful not to pickup your mums unfortunate emotional problems and lack of maturity. What she is doing shows an infantile understanding of a proper understanding of sex and of intimacy and she has a incomplete emotional capacity.
Look inside yourself and find out why she is so emotionally weak that she chooses to accept the sexual advancements of a guy who is OUT OF BOUNDS. What kind of life has she lived to make her this way?
You, too, should similarly distance yourself from this situation by a) accepting your mother with her faults and not blaming her for her shortcomings and b) categorising this "man" as wholly unacceptable, nor good enough to be called your boyfriend. Any man that respects, cares or loves you would NOT end up sleeping with your mum, no matter how your relationship turns out.
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Personally I've always believed in loyalty ie. you don't go with anyone your friends been with, wants to be with, or is with and them same rules go for your mum.
Have you told your mum how you feel? Has your mum taken your feelings into consideration at all I mean surely before she started this with him she should have thought about the affect this would have on you.
You are going to have to stop trying to tempt him into sleeping with you, firstly you don't want him so it would just be an act you will regret and secondly even though your mum hasn't considered your feelings don't act the same and not consider hers.
Start by talking to her and making her see what this is doing to you and how you are feeling, when it comes to it he is an ex so you don't want it rubbed in your face him being with someone else let alone your mum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): oh' dear'' that is really a hard thing happining now in your life, i think its better for you to get out of the site of this two. write a letter to your mon' tell her how you feel, and get out there as far as you can and as fast as you can.do not just stand there and watch whats goin on' stop hurting your self... its hard but you can do it. take care and good luck XXX gladyz....
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (22 September 2006):
 You need both these people out of your life. I can accept that a guy may like the thought of sleeping with the mother of his ex (coz they can be sick like that!) but for your Mum to sleep with an ex of yours?! That's just nasty and she should be ashamed of herself.
Leave them to it, find someone better than him and move on with your life. The only way to get closure is to stop caring about what they get up to and concentrate on making yourself happy.
Good luck.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I think you need to avoid both of them. . . or get them to join you on the Jerry Springer show. LOL.
Good luck.
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