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writes:There is this woman at work that is married, however I believe she is very much into me. She sometimes flirts very heavy with me and then the next day or so she tones it down and acts like were nothing more than friends. She and her husband are live in managers at a retirement home I work at. She is with him 24 hours a day 7 days a week. She has said a couple times while we were laughing and having a good time that she and I should manage the place. When I asked what about John? She shoes him away with her arm. She takes very good care of me as well. She does parts of my job and gets me coffee and yogart etc. On her day off she checks in with me and she makes sure she comes out of her apartment before I leave at 4:30 to say good bye. She has told me a few times that when they go back home to Florida they were taking me with them. I just don't know what to make of it or what other signs to look for to tell if she really is into me. Without letting her know that I am very much into her (don't want to be rejected) are there any questions or things I can do to find out if she is falling for me? Thank you so much for any advice!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (23 September 2006):
 I think she wants to feel sexy and that she could have sex outside marriage if she wanted, maybe she would even cross the line, maybe she has sexual or marital problems anyway I agree with the rest of advice this would mean deep sh*t, don't get involved and prentend not to notice would be cool
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reader, Tiagre +, writes (23 September 2006):
I agree personally, I don't think it's right for you to break up a happy marriage like that. It can be seen by many people as very selfish.
Also, ask yourself if you think you deserve to be treated like this? I don't mean the good things she does for you. I mean when she constantly changes her mind about whether to flirt or just be friends. She's mucking you around.
And remember, if she cheats with you on her husband, how long will YOUR relationship with her last, before she gets bored and cheats on you?
Just a thought.
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 September 2006):
 Well personally I would advice about doing anything regarding this, she is married so it is wrong for you to pursue her in any romantic or sexual way not only that but this has a very good chance of ruining your job.
You need to think about whats more important your job or making your feelings clear to your boss?
Also be careful you are not just wanted for a bit on the side or even for an extra person into their marriage.
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