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writes: My boyfriend's ex called here wanting to talk to him. Her current boyfriend is being sent overseas on a peacekeeping mission and she just wanted someone to talk to. The speaker phone was on and in no way did I get the impression that she is still interested in my boyfriend....she seemed really upset and heartbroken that her current boyfriend has just left. I am not sure how to handle this. Obviously she has put my boyfriend in the friend category but the fact that she called makes me insecure. Should I be troubled by this?
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reader, meowmixers +, writes (24 September 2006):
Yes, next step is him "stopping by" her place and then leads to other things. He needs to tell her to find a friend who is in the same boat and lean on that person because there isn't much he can say or do for her. If it sounds cruel, then it might be. Girls can be vicious, especially when they are sad and lonely.
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):
 Is she just friends or is she hoping that your boyfriend can be the one she can use to fill the gap her boyfriend has just left.
When it comes to it she is an ex and ex's are ex's for a reason remember that and surely you know that youe boyfriend loves you and wants to be with you as I got the impression your insecurities are not over him cheating with her or leaving you for her.
Ex's seem to have this effect on all of us making us feel jealous and threatened, talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you are feeling and maybe hearing some reasurance from him might settle your insecure feelings.
Good luck :o)
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