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Archived questions from: February, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Not sure I love my boyfriend any more, but don't want to let the married guy go, either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7076 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I have been having an affair with a married man for a few months now, he is 22 years older than me. Problem is I have a boyfriend who is the father of my child and he has recently asked me to get engaged. I don't feel as if I love my boyfriend ...

How do I choose between my longtime boyfriend & the other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6906 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm 26 and have been with my partner for 8 years but a few years ago i got involved with someone i work with. He is really gorgeous and we kept getting together at nights out and eventually slept togther a few times. This didn't last ...

The guy she's with isn't a nice person, but she can't seem to see that...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7199 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I love a girl I was sleeping with a year ago. We have always been good friends & I hear from the grapevine that she still has feelings for me, but she has hooked up with a guy that I know is not a nice person, & is using her. She has had a bit of a...

I love him, but he comes with a disapproving mum and sister...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6905 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for just over 18 months and we were good friends for 6 years before we got together so I guess you could say we know each other pretty well! Because we were such good friends and didn’t want to ruin the friendship we al...

My boyfriend wants a break, but will he get together with the other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years and were very happy up until new year. I was never a jealous sort of person until i met him and about 8months into our relaionship found evidence of him flirting with other girls from his...

She went back to her ex, but I know she loves me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7170 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - I'm 38yrs, met a girl of 21 yrs a few months ago, was worried about age gap but once I got to know her it was'nt a problem. I fell madly in love and believed she had too, everything was going great. However she did have a recent ex, after a few we...

My chat-guy lover is blackmailing me with incriminating photos...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my bf for almost 10 years now. Things were getting a bit stale between us so I decided to meet up with a bloke that i had been chatting to online. Things went well and we started to see each other regularly. We had amazing sex. ...

I'm with someone else now and so is he, but I still want him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7203 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - I can't get over my ex boyfriend. We were so close when we were together but both had very fiery tempers. We were together for 3 years and I felt bored and that I wanted sombody else. We have been apart 1 1/2 years. As soon as we split I realised...

If we don't have sex, is it still an "affair"? He says No.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7200 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - As a married woman i "fell" into an affair almost 2 yrs ago, although we have never had sexual intercourse, we have done most other things, he seems to think that if we dont have intercourse we arent actually having an affair and are doing nothing ...

He thought I knew about his longtime girlfriend. Can I get him as mine, alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7203 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - I went out with now my ex-boyfriend for 3 years before we both moved to different countries and then communication broke down. Now we live in the same country but he is living with his new girlfriend, I am single. He comes around to see me and we m...

Suddenly, my boyfriend is bi...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7007 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 2 yrs told me he was bi-curious, and now a month later he up and decided in one day he wishes to be "Just Friends for a week but not get involved with anyone else than re-evaluate the relationship" because we argue too much. He ...

I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but she keeps coming up with excuses..!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7204 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - I am a male, almost 64 years old and in love with a girl one year younger. We have been courting for two and half years and engaged for two years. I love her dearly and she says she loves me but will not give me a date for marriage or co-habiting. ...

He says he wants to be with me, but he still lives with his ex..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7202 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - I am in a gay relationship. Met a guy 9 months ago, that I can live my entire life with but just broke up with his ex 6 months after meeting him. He still lives with his ex at present. He seems to have indicated that he will be with me, until ye...

He doesn't work & he's in a relationship, but I think I love him anyway

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7057 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - Hi I am in love with a guy who is in a relationship. I am married myself, but we have been talking of breaking up. I have been married for 22 years now and he has been in a relationship for 3 years. They are living together, He has problems with an...

He broke up with me, now goes out with my best friend...and they both want to be my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7131 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I split up last week, and now he is with one of my best friends! None of my friends think this is wrong and cannot see it from my point of view! I cannot understand why my own friend would want to hurt me like this. They didnt ev...

If she has sex with another woman, we'll break up. If she doesn't she might leave me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7203 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. We're both bisexuals (I'm a guy) and I've had a relationship with a guy before my current girlfriend but but she hasn't ever had sex with a girl. She says it would be something she...

He gets on so well with his ex that I'm afraid he'll go back to her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7206 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - I have been in this relationship for 2 years now. I am in love with him and I believe he feels the same, but I feel like I am shadowing his ex. He was with his ex for 4 years, they have a daughter together and they have been engaged. She's always p...

I feel I overreacted to his texting someone else. Now I want him back, but he says it's too late.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6097 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - February last year having convinced a friend to do a fringe show, through his cast I met a gorgeous, genuine, guy; we instantly clicked and fell in love. We had wonderful dating time together, talked endlessly and just got on well. My employment and ...

He might be seeing someone else, but then, so might I...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7021 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - HELP!! I'm currently in a relationship and have been for two years. But I have my suspicions that he is cheating on me. He recently said to me he needs his own space and doesn't want to see me as much! But to be honest I'm not that bothered ...

Are we friends? Are we lovers? Am I just naive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7209 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - What makes a 50 year old, "happily married" man turn to another woman (me) for affection, cuddles, conversation, laughs and companionship (no sex)? His children are 22 and 20 (one has left home and the other is about to). This situation has been...

Lunch with a client turned into a temptation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7197 days ago

15 February 2005 (?) - I am in a relationship of 20 months. He helped me through my tough divorce. I now live on my own and we see each other a lot at weekends and make contact in the week. I like living alone and would not want us to live together. Where i work a...

Boyfriend's daughter and ex seem to rule our lives...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7201 days ago

15 February 2005 (?) - I MET MY BOYFRIEND 3 YEARS AGO. HE HAS A DAUGHTER OF 12 AND HIS EX WIFE LIVES IN THE SAME TOWN AS US. MY PROBLEM IS HE DOES EVERYTHING FOR HIS DAUGHTER. HIS DAUGHTER IS IN OUR HOUSE TILL 10.00 EVERY NITE WHEN MY PARTNER IS NOT WORKING, AND STAYS ON...

He comes, he goes, but he never stays. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7056 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend nearly 5 years. We went out together when we were young then split when I was 16. Never seen him for years. I had a relationship for 11 years and have 3 kids. It ended although I was in it I could not help but think of...

I don't want to fool around, but think about the Other Guy all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7033 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - Hello. I've been married for almost 9 years. I was not looking for anyone else, it just happened naturally. I have not done anything wrong with this other person but a kiss. I would not like to lose my husband, I know that I love my husband, but I ...

As soon as we slept together, he said I was "too close" & dumped me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7211 days ago

14 February 2005 (?) - When I started working in my job about 4 years ago, there was a guy who tried it on with me, as I'm married and I hardly knew him I brushed it off,but then he became really nasty towards me. This carried on for about a year, I didn't know why as I ...

Saucy text messages on my bf's phone, but he won't tell me what's going on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a lot of years and we have children. We have been having problems such as arguing about petty things but have tried to sort them out which I thought we had. A few weeks ago he went out drinking with some mates an...

He tells me that he "can't really say" where we're headed. Is it just sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7212 days ago

13 February 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship with a man for a little over 2 years now. We work in the same place and he would write me notes, things that made me feel good about myself. At that time I was still married. I have since divorced. My divorce was not ...

Love my partner but want the new girl, too...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7210 days ago

12 February 2005 (?) - Hi ya, I just need some advice. I've been with my partner for 2 years. I love her to bits. I've recently met this girl and I really fancy her but I love my partner. What do I do?...

Both my best friend & I like the same boy, but he doesn't know it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7210 days ago

12 February 2005 (?) - I am in love with my best mate who is a boy. I am a girl. I don't know how to tell him because my best mate likes him too. Please help....

He says he's going to drop his gf, but do I trust him..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7212 days ago

12 February 2005 (?) - I recently met the man of my dreams, perfect in every way, who adores me completely. The only problem? My boyfriend has a girlfriend! The girlfriend is at University and when we first hooked up he told me the relationship was over but, as he hadn't ...

She left me for my best mate, but hasn't told HIM she wants him. Can I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7213 days ago

11 February 2005 (?) - Its been 3 weeks now since the breakup of my 3 month long relationship with my ex-gf, who is also my housemate, and still is. The break up was due to her having a huge crush on my best mate. I found out about it and was furious initially, but thoug...

Will I lose him to my "friend"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - My best-friend has been flirtiing with my boyfriend. Do you think my boyfriend will fall for her even if he loves me ?...

We're both married to others, but his attention is so appealing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7214 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - I met a man 7 months ago as a friend living in the same road as us and we seemed to get chatting more and more and I suddenly realised one day that I fancied him. We have all gone out as a 4 some and the last time we went out he had said on the ...

I'm bi, but why did I kiss a man, when I'm in love with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7194 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I don't really know where to start. Just recently I came out and admitted i am bisexual. I started goin out with this girl who lives near me. Everything was great until the other day me and her went out with some friends clubbin. And I ended up ...

She doesn't know how I feel... do I take a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - For some time Ive have a really big crush on a girl in my year, and can go as far as saying i love her. But im not sure if she feels the same way. I havn't told her how I feel because Im afraid of being rejected and humiliated, and because ive spent ...

I can't forget that this 15-year-old girl said she loved me. Now she has a boyfriend her own age.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7214 days ago

10 February 2005 (?) - I made a huge mistake. I'm in my 30s and I've never had anyone special to me. It's always been hard for me looking at other people's relationships and knowing that it's just never happened for me. There is a family that our family are very close t...

Wondering if I can compete with his (female) friend..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7215 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now, after being friends for 3 years. I love him very much and I know he loves me too, but we are both at University and its getting harder and harder. When I say we're struggling he seems ...

When we argue, I just can't give him his "space" to cool off...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7180 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - I seriously need your help. I've been dating this guy for almost four years now and we have a few issues that I think are serious, and he doesn't. First of all he has a horrible temper when we argue - and the problem is that I just cannot b...

Feel I've picked the wrong man, and now he won't leave me alone...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7214 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - Please help! I am so confused. I had been with my ex, J, for nearly two years and felt true love. However we changed over time and I felt I wasn't happy anymore. I left him for another man who was giving me everything I missed. It broke J's hear...

I took him back, even after his affair with my sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7215 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - My Husband Has Been Having an Affair With My Sister I have been with my partner for almost 7 years, but we have only been married for 18 months. Everything before we got married was rosy. We have been extremely happy and almost never quarrel ab...

I'm between two people I want. How do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7216 days ago

9 February 2005 (?) - I am in love with a teenage college teacher & one of my really good friends but the problem is that my friend expects that I should be with them but I can't help that the fact. I am totally in love with this really good looking & amazingly kind ...

I love my wife...but feel so tempted by another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7216 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Here's the story, I'm a 21-year-old married university student. I have been married to my wife on 25th Dec 2003, she is 29 and let's call her Joyce, with whom I am now resided. I love her so dearly that I would do anything for her. But I met this ...

In love with my fiance's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7189 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I'm 20 years old and engaged. Trouble is, I'm in love with someone else: my partner's best friend! I have been with my b/f for 2 & a half years. I started talking to his friend a few months ago. We were just texting at first then we met up a couple...

Texting his ex...are they getting back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - Im really confused! My boyfriend of nine months has been secretly texting his ex, who is pregnant by another man. He went out with her 2 years ago for 3 months and they never did anything. He asked her things like what is she doing that night and ...

We're getting married, but the ex doesn't know about me...yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7217 days ago

8 February 2005 (?) - I am in a situation where I am with someone and, well, they were with someone else and they're not together but they have a child together. But the guy wants me now, not her, and she always uses the child against him like saying she going to hurt it ...

He says there's nothing between him & his wife. But does he love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7217 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - i am in love with a great guy. we had great times together as a friend, lover, work mate, everything. until he moved overseas. he is married, no kids. we have been in touch constantly. luvmaking between us has been amazing. he was the first ma...

If he's told little lies in the past, could he be telling me a big one now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7217 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I've been seeing a guy for 4months now, all great, never been happier and all that. he has told a few white lies along the line but nothing major. we work in same building, same floor, different department. there was a work do the other week f...

My boyfriend keeps in contact with his ex and I hate it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - Does my boyfriend love me? I have been with my boyfriend for a year... I am 17 and he is 31. He was in a relationship for 4 years and owned a house with his ex, whom he finished with to be with me... He's always really nice to me, giving me co...

Her ex keeps phoning, and she can't get over him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7217 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - I have met one of the best girls I have ever met. she's gorgeous, funny and great fun to be with, only thing is, we started going out for about three weeks then she explained to me how she isn't long over a relationship, and her problem is she can't ...

Worried my girlfriend is too close to her (male) friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

7 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a commited relatioship for about 18 months. I am 36 and divorced, she is 32 and never been married. I have a few concerns about our relationship. The first is about her guy friends. She has 5 male friends...