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I don't want to fool around, but think about the Other Guy all the time!

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Question - (14 February 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

Hello. I've been married for almost 9 years. I was not looking for anyone else, it just happened naturally. I have not done anything wrong with this other person but a kiss. I would not like to lose my husband, I know that I love my husband, but I think of this other person A LOT and he thinks of me too.

He is a great person and I enjoy his company very much. Even when I'm with my husband, I find myself thinking of this other person. I need some advice. What should I do?

What does it mean that I think of this person a lot? Please help!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2005):

You say "He is a great person...". Really, do great people fool around with married people? I know we live in a gutless, selfish era, so let me state the irrefutable fact plainly: Peole who mess around with married people are not good people. They are scum. The other man is scum, but since you are fooling around with him, you probably are scum also. You don't get to create your own morality. Get it?

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