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writes: I am in love with a teenage college teacher & one of my really good friends but the problem is that my friend expects that I should be with them but I can't help that the fact. I am totally in love with this really good looking & amazingly kind teacher! My friend has a lot in common with me & I really like them & they're single! but the teacher is the same age as me & feel the same for them but they are already with someone even though they show a lot of interest in me! I just dont know what to do! Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, steph, writes (9 February 2005): Firstly, write a list of all the things you like about each of them and see if what's on the list most fits with your personality.Just because you and your friend are so close the feelings you have may be more brotherly things than love feelings.On the other hand, you might just be realising that you and your friend are meant to be together.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (9 February 2005):
 Keep them both as friends would be my answer. To begin with, if you really cared for your good friend and fancied them rotten then you wouldn't really be lusting after someone else!If you actually got with them, you would probably continue to lust after someone else! Additionally, do you really want to have a relationship with someone who is with someone else? How trustworthy are they? They may be interested in you but do they want it to go further? Have you considered the other person involved?I think you need to think about searching for someone else and keep these two individuals as friends as I can forsee heartache along the way if you do anything else.
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