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writes: Hi ya,I just need some advice. I've been with my partner for 2 years. I love her to bits. I've recently met this girl and I really fancy her but I love my partner. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2005): sounds like you are getting a little greedy. Is it worth putting your relationship at risk for a bit of lust? I'm sure the shine would fade off of your passion if you were found out. iIf you truly love your partner don't even think about it.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (13 February 2005):
 It is fine to find someone attractive while in a relationship but to actually want them physically spells problems.To begin with, if you are really happy and in love with your girl-friend, you would simply dismiss any lustful thoughts about someone else because you know that you only desire and want your partner.You need to examine what you do really want and also consider how you would feel if your girl-friend was harbouring secret desires for another man.If it is true that you love your girl-friend to bits, then you will stick with her; she deserves your loyalty. However, if you are bored with your girl-friend you could find ways to rediscover the sparkle in your relationship.You need to be true to yourself and to your partner. Don't consider indulging in an affair or even secret fantasies; your girl-friend is worthy of more than that. If you really feel you can't control the way you feel then perhaps you need to think about being free again to explore exactly what you want.Good luck.
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A reader, Dominique McDonald, writes (13 February 2005): Are you still in love with your partner?If the answer is yes then stay away from the other girl. Ever heard about the forbidden fruit?Apples aren't even that tasty!What it really comes down to is self control. Can you be strong enough to resist? I think your girlfriend deserves much more than to be cheated on. What do you think?
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A reader, patti, writes (13 February 2005): if you love your partner of 2 years. this isnt fair to him or her now is it. that you fancy another. get your head straight. sounds like she or he is a great person.oryou dont want the committment and want to date another. dont screw it up
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