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writes: Its been 3 weeks now since the breakup of my 3 monthlong relationship with my ex-gf, who is also myhousemate, and still is. The break up was due to herhaving a huge crush on my best mate. I found out aboutit and was furious initially, but thought it'd beworth to give us another shot, which she refused to.And so we went our own separate ways. Thing is, she hasnt told my mate how she feels about him but is always waiting for him to be online. I can't get around the fact that she tries so hard to get it on with my mate the moment she and I broke up, although she is taking things slow at the moment(testing the waters).Well, I guess I have to live with the fact that shedidnt actually love me as much as she claimed she did!However, just about a couple of days back, we somehowtalked about the breakup and she was crying, sayingthat she still loves me and wished that she hadn'trefused my offer to get back together back then.Neither of us brought up the question of getting backtogether though. I think she still has feelings forthe other guy as well. I've never been good with interpreting women's signals and with her, I'm all the more confused. Also, I'm living with this other female housemate, Alison (whom my ex hates) who fancies me.Could this be the reason that she said what she saidto me, only to have me avoiding Alison? I pretended Iwas interested in some other girl in my office but shewasn;t at all offended, instead she offered me adviceson how to get her (that was 2 weeks ago) but when itcomes to Alison, she starts crying and telling me thatshe still bloody loves me! I'm going nuts just thinking about it now! Please help me. I need a power plan to help me get my head around this (better yet, if someone could gimme suggestions on how to win her heart back)! I just don't want to waste what we had (I somehow know she feels the same way too).
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2005): it sounds to me that she doesnt want you but she doesnt want anyone else to have you either. i dont mean to be harsh but coming from a girl i think she is just stringing you along until she plucks up the courage to tell your friend how she feels. you hav made it ovious to her that you want her back so if she wants you back that badly she will let you no and believe me making it seem that you aint that bothered will go along way!!! because you no what they say 'what you cant have you always want more'
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