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writes: My boyfriend and I split up last week, and now he is with one of my best friends! None of my friends think this is wrong and cannot see it from my point of view! I cannot understand why my own friend would want to hurt me like this. They didnt even tell me themselves...I found out from my other friend! The friend who is with my ex boyfriend lied to me, as I thought she liked him, but she told me she didn't, and that she would never go out with him because she wouldn't want to hurt me. She stil wants to be my friend, and my ex bf wants to be my friend too, but how can I after what they have done to me? I can't go out with my friends anymore because they will be there together and it will break my heart watching them together! Should I be friends with them both or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005): Find new and better friends who support your intelligence and build your self-esteem. That's what I did. It's true that when you go through really difficult problems, you find out how people really feel about you, and unfortunately, most people seem to love to see other people in misery - that is not friendship
A reader, Heather, writes (20 February 2005): Yes, they did lie and hurt you but is it worth losing your friends over. who cares what they have done they are stupid and will eventually break up too. think about how he used u then you will see that he will do the same to her. You should be better than both of them and show no emotion concerning this matter.(at least not in front of them) they will think that you don't care and if it is a plot to hurt you or something they will lose interest quick. Just play it off and go about life as usual. Yes it will hurt for a while but you will heal over time. good luck
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