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writes: Hi there.My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. We're both bisexuals (I'm a guy) and I've had a relationship with a guy before my current girlfriend but but she hasn't ever had sex with a girl. She says it would be something she would have liked to have done in the past, because she loves me and doesn't want to break up with me, but she also says that she would like to experience sex with a woman before she dies. For her to have sex with someone else (male or female) would mean we would have to break up, because I despise her for having sex with someone other than me while we're going out. Will she eventually break up with me because she feels unfulfilled? Or should I stick by her and potentially have my heart broken? If anyone can figure out what I ahould do, please reply, because I can't seem to figure this one out?Thanks so much
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Paul, writes (22 February 2005): If she is determined to have sex with another woman and this is not an experience you can fit into the framework of your current relationship (which by the sound of it, it isn't) then you've already answered your own question haven't you?You don't say whether this is something which is under discussion or that it was mentioned in passing and you are worrying about it. Either way, I'd discuss it with her some more.
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (20 February 2005):
 If you are both bisexuals then how does she know this having never slept with a woman?Assuming that she is, she should experience sex with another woman; how would you know your sexuality unless you slept with someone of that sex?I understand your point of not wanting her to sleep with another person, as that would be cheating, whether they were male or female.If she is so set on having this affair then you can either live with it or break up with her.
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