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writes: i am in love with a great guy. we had great times together as a friend, lover, work mate, everything. until he moved overseas. he is married, no kids. we have been in touch constantly. luvmaking between us has been amazing. he was the first man i slept with. the confusion; he claims he doesnt sleep with his wife since he knew me. he tells me when he has a hard on, even early in the morn, from overseas. n he admits he masturbates, thinking of me only. he even calls to play with me n vice versa. is it possible for a guy to love someone else, but sleep next to his wife and still dont have sex together?? all u male readers, plse help me make the right decision of my life. is it possible to for man to control himself in this case??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2005): Get rid. He's telling you what he wants to tell you and you are falling for it hook line and sinker. Why is he still with his wife? There are no kids there's nothing stopping him from leaving her. Ask him. You want to know why. If he doesn't answer well, there you go. As for the hard ons etc etc he's using your vulnerability and you are letting him abuse you. Get rid and find yourself a decent bloke. Plenty out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2005): Possible. I was in that situation. But I would say very unlikely. If you are not able to accept that he's going to be screwing his wife - even if he claims he dont, get out of there.In actual fact, you have said he's the first man you slept with. He's messing with your head. And if he's got no kids, whats he still doing with his wife ? He should do the decent thing and leave.
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