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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Worried about my boyfriend and his ex, what can we do about the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I'm sure you guys get these kind of questions a lot, but I'm currently going through this. Basically, when my boyfriend and I first got together a year and a half ago, he was still pretty hurt about his ex cheating on him and the break up they ha...

My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... ...

My ex had facial surgery and I'm scared of my reaction when I see her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - My ex and I have been broken up for months now. I still do have feelings for her and we have remained close friends over the time. We communicate often and go out. We're not back together because we were just incompatible and realized a ...

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

My boyfriend hides couples photos of us on facebook but the ones with his ex girlfriend are there for all to see!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hi there, nothing major. just a quick question. My boyfriend keeps hiding photos of us together from his facebook timeline thing. This is going to sound very petty, but I'm just a bit worried that he's embarrassed about me or somethin...

My story: Oh dear, I just realised what a narcissistic and manipulative person my ex-boyfriend was...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Holy crap - it just dawned on me how much of a 'what label should I give it? - manipulative, narcissistic, controlling' - boyfriend he was to me at the time! Now I was no angel but looking back over the course of our relationship - it starts at t...

Serious relationship for 2 years. Yet he flirts. He says he doesn't want to be mean or hurt their feelings. But what about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend I seem to have a problem with something - the way he acts with other woman. My boyfriend is what most people would call a 'natural flirt' and honestly it bothers me a lot. We live in a small town and he knows a lot ...

My current guy is great, but I don't feel the sparks like I did with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone who is great and loving to me. We have been together for a year and a half now. Long before meeting him, I met someone when at college. I was smitten with him (he was just a year older), and I had strong feelings. ...

Don't give me a lecture because I am only in it for the money!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - We dated for two years and he was a lovely person we separated because of me...i was not reliable. However his back, wants back... I dont really mind him being around because he is good to me. And doing financially badly, i wouldnt min...

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

Married with kids but think I'm still in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Fifteen years ago I met this guy at work. We were both in our mid 20’s. We dated for two years and towards the end of those two years I got pregnant. The relationship was already starting to crumble. I ended up not having the baby and hated myself ...

I fell pregnant, he left me and now I'm having to deal with a miscarriage on my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I had been in an unstable relationship with my ex for 2 1/2 years. He cheated and lied to me god knows how many times and for whatever reasons when he promised to be a better man i always took him back. The final straw was when he turned u...

I want to help my ex through his gambling addiction

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - Hello everybody, I don't usually do this sort of thing but I am currently in despair over a break up with my ex. Me and my ex broke up in February and I have been in upset since. We were together for 5 years and although we had our upsets we were ...

Should I give my ex a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 8 years about two years ago. Towards the end of our relationship he became a bit mean and I started emotionally detaching myself I suppose over time when this happened. He's a procrastinator and I couldn't see him wanting to ...

Can we be more than friends? I think I'm stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3794 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - I have a male friend who I am very fond of, well being truthful I am madly in love with him - but we are just friends. He was dating and has recently broken up, I have been a shoulder for him to cry on and tried to be there for him. The problem ...

Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...

I'm left feeling confused after a great night with an ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Well, I broke up my ex two years ago. We were together for seven years, but he wasn't happy in himself - he wasn't always nice to me in the last few years and quite negative. I felt he didn't love me and I started to emotionally distance myself ...

I am my ex boyfriend's booty call .....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me in February, because "he didn't love me anymore and the spark wasn't there".. He has been sleeping with ALOT of girls, and drinking ALOT! I have been sleeping with him still, but now I'm starting to get jealous and have ...

I have become 'the other woman' to my ex and I don't like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm in a situation where I'm the other woman I feel terrible and I never thought I would get into this situation. Basically my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago we have a child together. He came up to see our child and things ended up ha...

His family and friends influenced him and now we have broken up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Hi. Need help! My bf brokeup after 4 years together because of fights, he said he can't handle it. The real reason was he let him family know about our issues and they asked him not to see me again (It was so stupid of him and I believe his personal ...

We both desperately want this relationship to work but we still argue a lot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

22 June 2014 (M) - Hi Everyone, Im a bit embarrassed and scared as I type this, but i desperately need your help. I met a girl 4 months ago and we have been in a relationship now for a month and a half, but a lot of the time we sadly argue, twice a week we fall out...

I'm obsessing over his new wife and I don't know how to stop.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I know before a write this that people are going to think i'm pathetic but i feel like i have nobody i can talk to about how i'm feeling. Long story short, i was in a sort of FWB situation that ended about 2 years ago. I was the one to end it ev...

Is it normal that I still miss my ex a year after we broke up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - My ex and I broke up last year. I was miserable the first few months. I still cry if I think about how I spent those days. We were together for 3 years. Some people say that it takes half time of the relationship to heal. I'm putting the pieces of ...

Technically he's doing nothing wrong so I don't understand why this hurts me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I am so confused so hoping you can help! I basically met a guy back last summer. He approached me on a night out and we were seeing each other a little. It came to light that he had recently got out of a relationship at the time, and it ...

My boyfriend and best friend had a FWB relationship 3 years ago and never told me! Why not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - It may be something or nothing but ever since I found out my boyfriend and my best friend had a very short relationship (purely sex) nearly 3 years ago, I can't work out why neither of them told me before, instead I found out from a mutual friend. ...

Her ex is my friend, they're still friends, and I'm having trouble dealing with it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

20 June 2014 (M) - Curious for general perspective, and especially grateful to hear from anyone who is dating, or has dated, a guy, while you (the girl's) "ex" or old hookup buddy stayed around as friends to both sides. Assuming your new relationship is/was healthy, ...

I broke up with him because of my insecurities

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend got a facebook a few months ago, and usually I don't think anything of facebook. He's hardly on it, to be honest. But recently, he added his ex-girlfriend. It made my heart drop when I saw it. It actually made me very uncomfortable be...

He's a recovering alcoholic, not yet divorced from his wife and 3 months post-breakup with his girlfriend. Is it reasonable to keep dating him and see how it goes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - He's a recovering alcoholic (2 years and 3 months, attends AA) He is separated for 2.5 years, not yet divorced, while he is paying his wife for the business they had together He broke up with his girlfriend 3 months ago. I have been seei...

Have you ever run into your significant others ex-girlfriends and you actually like them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - I don't know if this is normal or not. I run in the same social circles as my significant other's ex-girlfriends that he has been intimate with before he met me. It's next to impossible not to run into them at some point, some even on a daily...

We've broken up but she still calls and messages. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - I don't know what is it but I promised my gf that I will be back after making my career. At the time we broke up before some days, but we broke up clearly and promised each other we won't contact each other through emails, sms or calls, but she agre...

I'm nervous about seeing my ex again. Should I not go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - At the beginning of the year, I broke up with my gf of 3.5 years because we weren't compatible for marriage. I haven't seen or spoken with her since. Unfortunately, I'm still very much in love her and I haven't been able to get her off my mind. ...

My ex and I broke up should I still ask her to go on a trip we had planned?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - My ex and I broke up a month ago (I'm trying to convince her to take me back) we had plans to travel and visit my sister next week. It's an 8 hour drive and we were going to spend a week there. Should I ask her to still come with me since it would ...

He seems awfully close to his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a month almost to. Him and his ex just recently broke up. And he's still friends with her. They talk every single day and all day! Even when he's with me sometimes. They dated for over a year and lived together. ...

His entire demeanor has changed. Is he withdrawing from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months. He lives in NJ and I live in NY- we are about an hour and a half away from one another. Some background on us- we met 7 years ago on vacation and really hit it off. He had a girlfriend so nothing ever ...

My boyfriend's ex is vindictive and wants him to sign over the rights to his child.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Right after we got together he told me that his ex fling told him he had a son. They had a horrible relationship and before ending she told him she had already been with other people. Needless to ...

I'm worried I can't compete with her ex who just bought her a car

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3802 days ago

16 June 2014 (M) - This is probably gonna be a long story, but here goes: I recently graduated from college and moved back to my hometown. Between having a full-time job and not having many friends that still live here anymore, I decided to make an effort to date u...

I'm utterly ashamed of my drunken behavior in front of my ex and his girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

15 June 2014 (F) - Im so ashamed and embaressed. So lastnight I went to a friends birthday party. My ex from a very long time ago was there. I had drunk quite alot and I was flirting outrageously with him. Then later on in the night his girlfriend arrives. I did not ...

Is this a misunderstanding or should I just give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3803 days ago

15 June 2014 (F) - It's been almost a year I'm living with this guy I've got a filling his still seeing his baby mama lately I'm seeing a lot of picture of him and his kid but he always told me he dosnt see his kid anymore cause that b**** don't let him see ...

After just a few weeks my ex husband's girlfriend is calling the shots and I think she's plotting against me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3803 days ago

15 June 2014 (F) - Hello Not sure if this is a problem at the moment or could be a problem that I need to nip in the bud now? I was married for 10 years to a very abusive man, we were extremely young and our relationship was extremely tempestuous but once we had ...

Should I try consoling her or should I let her get through her grieving alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 June 2014 (M) - My friend (ex crush) have been down in the dumps lately. It wasn't until recently that I found out she broke up with her boyfriend. I confessed to her my feelings a few months back but she said that she only saw us as friends. It was difficult at ...

What can I do to make my girlfriend feel better about herself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

14 June 2014 (M) - I don't know what to do about my girlfriend. When we first got together she was really confident and sure of herself (maybe because she'd just lost a huge amount of weight). About six months into our relationship she got really paranoid about my ex ...

Why am I putting up with bad treatment from my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

13 June 2014 (F) - Hi and thanks, I've known my ex for about 8 yrs. We were on and off about 4 years. I had broken up the first time around because he was cheating with several women and was on a dating site, plus admitted to having feelings for an ex. We managed t...

I don't want to live in someone else's shadow!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for 2 1/2 years now. We've had a baby together and I have lost all my confidence. My ex husband cheated on me all the time and I'm unsure if my own insecurities are the problem or i should be concerned. My boyfriend ...

Do I give him another chance or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - Two weeks ago, I broke up with my now ex-boyfriend. He just didn't seem as interested in the relationship as I was, except for sex. Since breaking up with him, he has finally began to seem more eager to communicate and show affection. I was...

He wants to talk everyday and support me financially, why, when he broke up with me and already has a new girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - My ex an I was together a year and 3 months. And we broke up on Saturday. And he moved on started dating another girl. But the day after the break up he was being so so mean to me. And now he's been texting me for 3 days non stop he texts from when ...

My ex is mentally ill, how do I talk about changing our relationship status on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

11 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! A while back I wrote to you asking if I should break up with my depressed boyfriend. I did it, we broke up. He was since sent to hospital again, where he is currently staying against his will because they believe him to be a danger to ...

Did he forget about this CD filled with pictures of his ex? Should I be angry with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - Hi There, When I first got together with my other half , I can;t remember why we were discussing it but he told me he had deleted all inappropriate pictures of his ex-wife. Two years ago I found some pictures on his computer which he told me he...

Do I throw away all the good things I have with him for some facebook/google searches?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

9 June 2014 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. I've been with him near two years with plenty of commitment on his part. But my heart is breaking because he can't let go of his ex girlfriend from four years ago. I know that everyone says - don't be second choice...

I'm an ex but he doesn't remember!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

9 June 2014 (F) - i went on a date with an ex he didn't know it was me its been 14 years since we last saw each other and ive put on 3 stone and now he wants to see me again do I tell him the truth who I am or shall I just keep quiet ?...

I cheated, feel guilty, feel remorse and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

9 June 2014 (F) - I've been married for 5+yrs to Mr.Right.For some reasons though we were very compatible in every way, we were not happy in sex.3 years passed with busy life,sex was not very important between us.Later for no reason i started getting attracted to a ...