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age
30-35,
*amzy
writes:I don't know what is it but I promised my gf that I will be back after making my career. At the time we broke up before some days, but we broke up clearly and promised each other we won't contact each other through emails, sms or calls, but she agreed that if we meet somewhere by chance we will talk normally. And the great thing is that I got really happy after leaving her, but today she again calls me and messages me and I really got in tense ...What should I do now? I am really not happy with it and she always says she can't leave me as it is affecting my studies?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2014): I think you sent in a similar message to this site a few days ago?
The situation has now become one of harassment. She is harassing you and will not respect your boundaries.
I suggest that you give her one last chance and state very clearly to her that she must accept your boundaries and to stop contacting you or you will have to report her behaviour to your college tutors, your college counsellor or the police.
If she still continues to contact you then you must report her behaviour to your college tutors or counsellor first of all. If they cannot help you then you must report her behaviour to the police.
Hopefully, if she realises that other people are aware of her actions she will stop communicating with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014): I don't get it. Are you actually broken up forever or are you still planning on having a relationship with her when you complete your studies?
If you want to get back together again after your studies then it's ridiculous to expect her to not to contact you at all while you're apart. Unless it's just for a few weeks
If you've decided that you're never going to have a relationship with her, then you'll have to BLOCK her from your phone, email, social media etc so she can't keep contacting you. And you won't feel so bothered...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2014): Greetings,
i think she is too young to understand what true love is.nowdays in school life,even young students at age of 15,fall in love,due to influnce of film etc.
So what girls at this small age think love as something great and those who are not in love think themself as dumb or will be mostly critisized by her friends(these things happened during my school days)....so until she gets matured,she will stick to you.
Just be a gud friend to her,and everything will go rite.
-oggyjack
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