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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...

Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. H...

How do I wipe away memories of bad ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I keep having vivid dreams every night lately, mostly just random dreams but so vivid they are like movies, I can wake crying/laughing/in shock. Last night I dreamt about a man from my past, who I can only label as a sociopath. I spent a good y...

Should my b/f have told hix ex why I blocked ber on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of six months has a really hot ex girlfriend. I have spent a lot of time looking at photos of her on Facebook and feeling jealous. She dumped him after a few years together and he was heartbroken. I decided to block her on Facebook so ...

I can't understand myself

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - So I meet men , we break up and later I find out they met someone else in less than a month. They block me from their lives or harrass me by using the other woman or completely disappears out my life. I am getting so sick and tired of this. I feel ...

I'm devasted after my soul mate dumped me 2 months ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - I am so screwed up. My lovely bloke broke up with me 2 months ago. We were together 3 years and he was my soulmate.unfortunately we had 2 years of abuse from my ex. He stood by me but over last,12 months I saw his personality change and I think he ...

Should I confront her about her secret correspdence with her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

27 December 2014 (?) - I've just found out my girlfriend has been messaging her ex in secret, should I confront her about it? We're both 26 and have been together 6 years. Her ex was her childhood sweetheart but they split up after he cheated on her. A few days ago I was ...

Am I being jealous, selfish and disrespectful towards my Gf? Should I put up with her disrespect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for six months, she has two kids to a guy she split from over a year ago. They came to an agreement after they broke up that he would collect the kids and have them stay at his house every weekend. Since me and ...

Can age gaps work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - Hi, why do I always fall for older men! I have had 2 serious relationships one when I was 19 and he was 38. Then I met my daughter's father (48) when I was 22 which ended badly. I swore after that I had to stick to men around my own age, more in ...

Should I tell my ex GF's dad she turned down my proposal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

26 December 2014 (M) - Hey guys, my gf and i broke up recently. Her parents are great and i really like them. Just before we broke up i sent Christmas cards for the two of them. ( they are separated) well her dad sent me a Christmas card back and he was asking me if i was ...

I would like his kids to be part of our big day, but what if they cant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Merry Xmas everyone! I just want a bit of advice..I am getting married next year and very exited. My fiancé has 2 kids from a previous marriage and I love them to bits. My future step daughter who is 7 is a bridesmaid and step son usher. They ...

Why can't lovers be friends instead of enemies?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Dear cupid I have a few exes in my life that I still communicate with but now all of a sudden everyone of them seems as if I did some thing wrong to them but I didn't.We as adults still talk to one another but now they are ignoring me.I'm not ...

My boyfriend broke up with me Christmas night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - Hi there... My boyfriend and I just broke up.. Literally on Christmas Day. And my story is gonna be quite lengthy but I really need some opinion of what you may think of it. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year.. And throu...

Abusive manipulative ex bought me an xmas present. I' ve gone no contact but feel guilty for not saying thanks.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - Dear all. Happy Christmas!! Please advise. Thanks. I jave recently finally got out of a long horrid relationship with a guy My feelngs have almost gone, and I'm doing ok. Anyway, to get to this point I decided no contact was best, so changed ...

Would you be jealous of this cheat's wife if you were me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing to this site because i'm feeling pretty conflicted. I used to have a physical relationship with someone who was very wrong for me and it destroyed any self esteem i used to have. Most of the time i was miserable when it was going on. ...

Two separate lives... how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I'm a white girl that met and fell in love with an Asian guy, we had a baby over a year ago. His family have never acknowledged our baby or me. He used to visit them to meet his children to his ex partner who is also white btw. In the end and ...

He feels responsible for his depressed ex gf......how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a month now. We really like each other and things were going great. Til now. I dont know the ins and outs of why he and his ex of 7 years split up back in summer but I do know that they werent right together and they ...

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...

I need to walk away from him -- how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3614 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - My ex bf and I have been on/off for a while and I just found out the real truth, he has been sleeping with other women. I didn't think he was sitting at home either. yes we are both single and we are both free to do what we want with whom we want. ...

Why would he message this ex? Why can't he just ignore messages from an ex? what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend over a year. Things are great its been a great year and weve talked of buying a place together next year. So were both very serious about one another. We've told each other we love each other etc and i really do want to ...

My ex is coming over and says he doesn't want sex. What if I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

21 December 2014 (M) - Dear cupid, My ex is coming over tomorrow to hag out,he says he wants to catch up and watch TV. He says he doesn't want to have sex but what if I want to? I know I'm not gonna pressure him but I don't want to come on too strong. What do I do?...

We've got back together but the breakup has destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - I recently got back together with my then ex-boyfriend. We dated for 3 years before he decided to call it quits saying that he had fallen out of love with me.It was a real nasty break up and he was horrible and nasty to me I hardly recognized him. I ...

We had a good date, kissed goodnight, but this morning I am blocked!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Hi, hopefully going to be a short question! If not forgive me. So I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. I know him through my ex but they aren't good friends they jusy know eachother. He asked when he could take me out we chose frida...

He's neglecting me... Just want someone to talk to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - I'm 32 and my bf is 36. We've been together for over 5 years. We broke up for about 6 months due to him neglecting me. During our BU, he contacted me EVERY week, the entire 6 months.... EVERY week for 6 MONTHS! Now you'd think in that time he'd have ...

I think he proposed just to win me back, not because he wants to be married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3616 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - I would greatly appreciate your advice. My boyfriend of three years proposed to me last Christmas but is yet to show an ounce of interest in the wedding or even setting a year. Our sex life has practicality non existent due to him apparently having ...

My boyfriend loses interest in a girl if she puts out too soon.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - So my boyfriend has this "thing" where he loses interest in girls if she puts out too soon. I know this because we were friends for a long time before dating. And he would meet a girl, he seemed interested cause he would even tell us, "I met this ...

He kicked me out because I cheated. Will he take me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my my boyfriend for a little over two years. This week I had went behind his back and hung out with my ex, my ex would call me beautiful and do little gestures like put his hand on my leg while driving grab my butt randomly and open ...

Like cinderella I want to go to the party, but instead of an ugly sister an ex friend will be there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - Hi ive been invited to my partners office party. I feel nervous as have not met any of his friends or wives/ partners. My major problem is a ex friend of mine and his who he also was very close to will be going as she used to work there and her ...

I am also fed up with his manipulative ex girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I've been following a recent post here titled 'Annoyed with his manipulative ex'. I'm in a similar situation. To give a little back ground. My current boyfriend was in a relationship with his ex for about 3 years. He says that even from the start of...

Annoyed with his manipulative ex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3576 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - Let me start this by saying that my new boyfriend is wonderful. I'm 34 years old and have never met anyone so perfect for me in all of my life. He goes out of his way to do things for me. This weekend I had to be away for a business trip and he ...

Whose decision is it anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

15 December 2014 (M) - My fiancé has 3 children, 21, 23 and 26. They still live at home. Her children want the ex husband to come for Christmas Day lunch at her house. He will not come if I am there. They have been divorced 10 years. She is now telling me she won't ...

Would it be ok for me to have a casual arrangement with an abusive ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I have recently came out of an emotionally, verbally very very abusive relationship. He was the love of my life who started turning abusive for past 1 year and I became a typical doormat for him, lost all my self esteem, hated myself f...

My husband had the following conversation with the woman he slept with behind my back. Please tell me what you think of it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing this post because i found something which has concerned me a bit. I have been married for a little over a year and things have been going fine, at least, i thought so. Before we got married my husband slept with another woman be...

Did he ever love me? Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - Hi I met a.man last year and couldn't believe it when he showed interest. Only thing is he loves to drink and always be out, it's not always possible having children and working full time and when he asked he would give.me a ten second window a...

I caught him looking at me after avoiding me for 2mos., is it possible he still cares for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - We haven't had any communication for 2 months now. We ended things amicably because of personal complications. He wanted to give me space by avoiding me first but he claims were still friends. I've stopped approaching him entirely after he didn't ...

Three months after we broke up he unblocked me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

14 December 2014 (F) - My ex unblocked me from IG 3 months later and liked several of my pics at 5am so I will know I'm unblocked. It was a really bad break up so not sure what he's doing. Why after all this time? He could've just unblocked me if he thought it was petty ...

She said she will always chose her kids father over me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

14 December 2014 (M) - I've known my girlfriend for about ten years in total, I've known her family longer than that. Four months ago we got back in contact for the first time in eight years and things went from friendship to more quite quickly because of the history we ...

If he wants to break up I accept, and if he just wants to be friends that's okay, but I really want to get back together with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - So I had this thing with this guy, I'm not really sure what to call it. The first day we met, we hit it off immediately and we were holding hands by the end of the night. He got my number and texted me and we hung out the next day with a group of ...

I only contacted him because of the baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - i tried posting this yesterday but i can't find anywhere. My situation, i contacted my ex bf to inform of our baby. he wanted a dna test so i was just following up to see when/how, if he had found any info about getting a test done, etc. He said he ...

My fiance's ex wife and adult children have been very abusive toward me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - My fiance has 3 daughters in early 30s all with huabands and kids. They have been so a abusive verbally to me and finally have begun treating their father the same he has just cut off any contact with them. Now they are accusing me of breaking...

It's as if she has dropped off the earth ..........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

11 December 2014 (M) - I think I've just been late "Turkey-dumped." I am a college freshman at a state school around an hour from my home town. I have been dating my high school sweetheart for around two year, and we have been fairly happy all of this semester (My ...

I am back with my ex, now how to let the other guy down gently!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - how can i let a guy down ,id split up with my boyfriend about 2 week ago i went out on a night out with friends to a different town and met a man it was nice having attention and a cheeky snog but i feel thats all it would be hes not boyfriend ...

The drama is getting too much ...........

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - I am dating an almost divorced man. His final court date for his divorce is in February and that's it. For the past month his soon to be ex is in overdrive trying to patch things up even though she filed. I beleive when she filed it was to scare ...

He isn't willing to spend New Years with me and his friends because his ex will be there. Am I overreacting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, Going to try and keep things to the point. I am 22, the guy I am involved with is also 22. We are not in a relationship but that is what we're working towards, there have been a few hiccups in our situation which is why we aren't o...

He went from being passive aggressive towards me to being very kind..is that weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - Well, a few months ago me and this guy were talking to each other and he had asked me out to dinner with him. I insisted that I would eventually go out with him, but 3 weeks later me and my ex got back together. (I never went to dinner with him ...

I've gone a week and a half no contact, how long should I wait before contacting her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

9 December 2014 (M) - Hi there, I began dating a friend of mine who is 40 years old and her and I were together for 11 months. It seemed like things were serious as she moved to a townhouse closer to me so that we could see each other during the week. During the time we ...

Why does my ex keep asking about who I might be dating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

8 December 2014 (F) - Ex, who is now married and I'm sleeping with (not proud of this), keeps asking me about who I'm dating. Why is he asking me this? Why does he even care to know? When I ask him, he changes the subject. He doesn't want a relationship with me again, ...

What she told me during our breakup haunted me ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

8 December 2014 (M) - Allright not sure how to start this off, my ex and I broke up years ago and it didnt go well. She freaked out over something that turns out I didnt even do, anyway when we broke up she told me I was a freak, a monster, that she regretted ever ...

I am always scared that my boyfriend will fall in love with someone else, cheat on me, or break up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm a very anxious person when it comes to relationships and I still haven't found a way to fix it. When I'm in a relationship, I get very worried about my boyfriend crushing on other girls or cheating or just breaking up with me. I think it...

Why would my guy friend ask me what I thought of his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

5 December 2014 (F) - I just have a simple question I think, one of my guy friends sent me a picture of one of his ex's that he was talking to again and asked me what I thought of her? I don't know how to respond to it, I mean she's pretty. I asked why and he said just I ...