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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (9 December 2014):
 Considering that he's sharing YOUR LADY-PARTS with them... he is probably just curious about who else is plowing the same turf that he is......
Are you crazy?????? How long to you intend to keep this up?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 December 2014):
 Just what exactly are you getting out of this situation? I'd say relationship but it really is more of a situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2014): What others said: men wanting control over your partners while they have several. stds and so on. Stop having sex with him and get him out of your life for good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2014): Try to find someone better. He is probably liking the fact that you are sharing him yet he is not sharing you
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reader, jls022  +, writes (8 December 2014):
I think he's forcing the point that you are free to go out and date to make it 100% clear that you are not in a relationship with him. Whatever his reasons, he doesn't sound like someone worth your time or effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2014): Not in a relationship with him now. he dumped me and married and now is seeing me again. still married. No relationship at all
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 December 2014):
Maybe he's just making polite conversation.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 December 2014):
 how is he an ex if you are in a current relationship with him now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2014): I'm thinking maybe he doesn't want me to get too attached, so he's making sure I'm dating other people and not waiting for him. Sound good?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 December 2014):
So what is YOUR best guess as to why he keeps asking you?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (8 December 2014):
 Wants to be sure it's no one he or his wife knows sothat your secrets remain secrets I suspect. i also predict(I know you didn't ask but here goes anyway) i predict this little trist will ultimately blow up into a full-blown Problem because it's bound to be made public sooner or later. Keep yout head down when it does 'cause he'll blame you for the whole thing. Always happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2014): But when I said non of your business he sais "go ahead enjoy your freedom"
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 December 2014):
because while men do not mind having more than one woman to have sex with they don't want that woman having more than one man.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 December 2014):
Because he's concerned that maybe a guy you are dating may cut into his nookie time with you.
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