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26-29,
*ispan-ish
writes: I think I've just been late "Turkey-dumped." I am a college freshman at a state school around an hour from my home town. I have been dating my high school sweetheart for around two year, and we have been fairly happy all of this semester (My first one away). She had plans to move in with me at my apartment after high school *(Probably for the scholarship money!)* and we had a schedule where we met at least once a week. I believed it was pretty intimate and I know it was fun; however, things went south around 10 days ago. She has just randomly stopped replying to E-mails and Text messages/ calls. It's as if she dropped off the face of the planet. Our common friends won't talk about her, as if to protect her from my prying eyes. I feel like I'm stalking her by asking her friends how she's doing and texting her once a day. It's been 10 days, and I'm just starting to accept that our relationship is over. Any advice on what happened/ What I can do in future situations to improve the outcome?
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reader, Hispan-ish +, writes (11 December 2014):
Hispan-ish is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! That's the soundest advice I've gotten on the matter. In fact, this is my first post, and I am really impressed with the community.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 December 2014):
 My guess is, she met someone else OR she can't really handle the LDR. Those two options makes the most sense.
What are you going to do? CUT the contact 100%. That means STOP texting, e-mailing and REMOVE her from your FACEBOOK (and her friends) send her a note on FB first letting her know that you are doing it, and that you will GRACEFULLY accept that she has DUMPED you and decided NOT to tell you to your face. Then wish her well, and focus on school and friend/family.
The girl is a coward or she just REALLY don't want to hurt your feeling by breaking up, YET that is what she is doing. SHE dumped you.
Something happened 10 days ago, and you may never find out what it is. So unless YOU did/said something that would make her go silent, there isn't much you can do.
I'm sorry.
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