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writes:Hi ive been invited to my partners office party. I feel nervous as have not met any of his friends or wives/ partners. My major problem is a ex friend of mine and his who he also was very close to will be going as she used to work there and her husband is a boss. She has told so many lies about me and still hates after me and my partner got together. Im not feeling very confident at all... Have put on weight too.. :( .. I want to go for my partner but inside im scared to death.. Please helpLaura Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 December 2014):
 Go if you feel you HAVE to support your partner and then "KILL" the "evil" ladies with kindness or simply avoid them.
It's ONLY a couple of hours.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (18 December 2014):
Calm down and think about this rationally. What can she possibly do to you? NOTHING. Absolutely nothing. If she causes a scene or speaks poorly of you at the party she will only make herself look bad, truly.
Go to the party, hold your head high, smile graciously and otherwise ignore her. Don't let her smell your fear. :)
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (18 December 2014):
 Do you have to go to this party? Your partner might not be too bothered about you not going if you explain why.
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