A
male
age
26-29,
*qualad
writes: Dear cupid, My ex is coming over tomorrow to hag out,he says he wants to catch up and watch TV. He says he doesn't want to have sex but what if I want to? I know I'm not gonna pressure him but I don't want to come on too strong. What do I do?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (22 December 2014):
What do you do? Be a decent human being and respect your exes wishes. Leave him alone.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 December 2014):
You pull down his trousers, expost Mr Happy, and say to him, "You know, Hunchy-Bunchy, I was hoping I could "get a little" from you if you stopped over... so HOW ABOUT IT?????"
That should do the trick....
Good luck...
P.S. Please report back, on here, and tell us if you "got a little" from him!!!!!
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 December 2014):
I agree with Auntie Bim.
If he already told you up front no sex, just.. RESPECT it.
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reader, jls022 +, writes (21 December 2014):
I totally agree with Aunty Bim Bim - no means no. If he doesn't want to have sex and you do, then you will need to try to find someone else to have sex with. End of story.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (21 December 2014):
If he says he doesn't want sex and you ignore that and coerce or pressure him that could be classed as rape.
If you feel you are incapable of controlling your sexual urges you need to advise him to stay away.
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