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writes:I am so screwed up. My lovely bloke broke up with me 2 months ago. We were together 3 years and he was my soulmate.unfortunately we had 2 years of abuse from my ex. He stood by me but over last,12 months I saw his personality change and I think he has adult ADHD which I found difficult to cope with. I pushed him away but soon realized I loved him regardless although I needed more time with him. He dumped me yet still says he loves and misses me but he knows there no future as he likes his space. He is 44 surely he knows what he wants and says I am a drama queen for getting upset with his tactless words. He use to say I was his world but now thinks I am not patient enough. I am devastated and cry everyday.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2014): My ex made threats and attacked him. The ADHD signs I see are anxiousness and his time is given to others or himself rather than with me and my daughter. There is always something else to do and he is 100 miles an hour.i loved some of his quirky ways but I wasn't on his priority list. His rejection hurt. I felt used only at weekend by him.
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (28 December 2014):
 What does 2 years of abuse from your ex mean? What are his tactless words that upset you? What behaviors resembling ADHD disturb you?
~SY
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 December 2014):
 I feel your pain and am sorry for this life trauma you are going through,, you will emerge stronger though so hang tough.
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