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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why do girls stay friends with some of their ex boyfriends but not all of their ex's?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Why do girls stay friends with some of their ex boyfriends but other they just decide they don't want anything to do with anymore for no reason and he never did anything to deserve that?...

I think I made a mistake by judging his past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I fell head over heels in love with a man.He was 10 years younger than me. He was a serial cheater. Cheated on his exwife cheated on his ex girlfirends and cheated on his last girlfriend to be with me. It was perfect for 8 months. I knew he was ...

Should I be worried that he's still not over his ex yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. He is 30 and I'm 29, and we started living together about a month ago. It was around this time when he first told me he loved me too. Things are going really well. We get along great and are very sex...

Whenever he sighs 'I love you' I think of him saying that to his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - dear cupids, whenever i'm with my 10 month boyfriend having sex and he sighs "i love you" i instantley remember a situation that happened between him and a girl he once slept with before me, in which he sighed to her "i love you" and she said tha...

Should I keep that little place in my heart for him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I used to date O years ago he was sweet and we had known each other since we were just 6. We lost contact and I met M who messed me about constantly but I was young and in love. He dumped me for someone else. O asked me out again I said yes bu...

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other ...

I've been on the couch for a week because wife goes through my account and sees things she doesn't like

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Ok, so a few years back, an old girlfriend looked me up on Facebook. At the time I didn't know how to not accept it. I just keep clicking "ignore". After about two weeks of clicking ignore, I got tired of the message always popping up so I accepted ...

My ex has threatened to post naked photos of me on the internet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hi there! I hope you can help me with my current situation. I was in a relationship with a foreigner (dutch guy) for about 6 mos. I decided to have full closure with him since I feel so bad about what had happened 2 mos. ago. He was like a nightmare ...

Feel unwanted and second best. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Basically, I feel inferiour after an incident happened last week. And it was a real kick in the teeth for me after I have tryed to improve everything. I have always had really bad self esteem, and recently...

I am a virgin, girlfriend is not. I am afraid I can't measure up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I just met this girl 4 months ago and things couldn't have been better. We hit everything off perfectly. But I'll get directly to the issue. Eventually I brought up topic of previous sexual history and I asked to be honest. I'm 21 years old, only ...

Ex girlfriend wants to be friends, but I'm not over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Dated exGF for about a year and a half. For a part of it we were off/on but the "off's" didn't last longer than a day or two. Anyhow, she broke off everything almost 3 months ago, but has continued to contact me, saying she still loves me but "can't ...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

An unexpected gift from my ex: keep it or return it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I have a bit of a dilemma. I went through a messy break up with my ex. However I received a gift from her in the post. It's something I've wanted for a long time and she knows this. Should I return it or keep it? If I return it I'm kind ...

Boyfriend of two years wont stay at my place

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I have been divorced for 3 yrs and I have two kids 4 and 13 I have been with my bf for two yrs. my xhusband and I had a two family home and when we divorced he lived in one half I lived in the other and I had the kids all day and he took them at ...

What do I do about this ring intended for my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - Hey all, I have what I think is an unusual question. For Christmas 2012 I bought my then girlfriend a ring. Not an engagement ring, but a little bit of an expensive ring that has a heart made out of rubies filled in with diamonds. Well her and I ...

My BF was still hung up on his ex when we got together and I feel resentful. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Are breaks in a relationship ever a good idea? Just to give some background: my bf and I have been together ten months. We love each other, we've been honest with each other, we trust each other, and we want to make this relationship wor...

Completely hung up on my ex, how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - So for the last few years I've been pretty hung up on my ex (let's call her Kate). I haven't spoken to her since we broke up over 3 years ago, but I can't get her out of my head, even now. I have a girl I'm seeing now (let's call her Amy) and she...

How do I get out of this? I lied and told my friends I wasn't back together with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Hi Sorry in advance for the long story ... I was with my boyfriend for 5 years when we broke up, it was a mutual break up but when breaking up he did tell me he had been seeing someone else, i was obviously upset, hated him etc, i ofcourse...

Is 23 years later too late to return to a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Is it ever okay to return to a relationship -in my case that happened 23 years ago- and try again? "John" and I were going steady (in our relationship) till his band went on the road. Well, true to most musicians...he cheated. I found out and left ...

My ex boyfriend wants me back should I get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were dating in 2012 we were a really sweet couple all my friends taught we were a great couple. Then I dumped him because I caught him saying:" I love you and I want you back" to another girl in my estate. I asked him why he did ...

Fiance not into me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been with my fiance for two and a half years, we have had our up a and downs but mostly, we have had a great time - but lately, I am worried that he is just not that into me any more. We live together and I gave a great relationship ...

How can I get over my ex? He says he still loves me but didn't want a serious relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Nothing seemed wrong to me, and then completely out of the blue, he called me and said he thought that we should just be friends. He explained to me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationshio ...

Working on things with my Ex but she goes round to another guys house

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - Ok here goes... Im not going to just show one side of the story here because this is all my fault... I split up with my girlfriend of 3 years in december 2012 because i thought i didnt love her anymore. I started hanging around with another gir...

Had a steamy text conversation with my ex-boyfriend's brother. Should I let my guilt win? Or could I take this further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I've recently had very steamy text phone calls with my ex boyfriend's brother. We have liked each other forever. I want to act on it. But guilt makes us stop. I truly believe he could be everything I've been looking for. Should I move on? Stop dre...

My ex left me with no explanation now she's back and I have someone else in my life. I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - my girlfriend and i had a strong relationship. There way she loved me i could tell that she is the perfect bride for the perfect groom. a year back she was raped,and sadly she got pregnant. From that day of the incident i never heard from her,...

How do I deal with constantly seeing my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

25 March 2013 (?) - It's been a few months since I broke up with my boyfriend. It was sort of mutual- we both had very different lifestyles and values. However, we go to the same college and run into each other quite frequently. We haven't spoken since the day we broke ...

Should I tell my ex I still love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I've been talking to me ex for about a year now. He's married since our breakup. We were together a long time. His wife doesn't know. We talk when she's not around. We spend hours on the phone. Like 4 or 5 hours. It seems he likes talking to me. ...

I had anxiety after breaking off an abusive relationship and it's now affecting my current relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4296 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - When I was 16 I had a relationship with a boy. I took it seriously although it was just a game for him. He wrote me and saw me very rarely, although when we saw each other he behaved like a true gentleman. After 7 months of our relationship he ...

I am his Gf yet he treats me like the other woman. Should I end this relationship? Worse, he's also started being mean to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I need some sort of advice, i been driving myself crazy going over and over this issue in my head. I am single no kids never been married. I been dating this man for 3 years things were great as any relationship it has its up and downs. Some of h...

Two questions: Why is my ex still messaging me? And why is my current Bf so controlling about me going to Hen's nights and clubbing with my Bfs? Should I put up with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - First: I started dating my now fiancé in 2011, I cheated first two weeks of our relationship, which I am not proud of, we have gotten through all this though, got engaged in 2012. I haven't cheated since 2011. I love him, he loves me (almost 2 ye...

He never told me had a Gf, but I found out. Then he claimed he broke up with her. Based on his actions has he returned to his Gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4297 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I’m a varsity student and sometime last year I met this guy who is about four years older than me. I found him very nice and funny. We went out on a few dates and he came to visit me a lot. When we went back to school he told me that he had a gi...

Please, can you tell me a way to forget her? She's moved on. I have not. And Still I do love her so much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - I am finding I am experiencing a very hard time in forgetting a girl who I loved. We were very good friends and I had told her about my feelings. She was not sure that time. However after sometime we had an affair. I had initially thought she love...

I loved the first brother, but he disappeared and has just now returned. Meanwhile I fell in love with his brother. Should I walk away from both of them?

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24 March 2013 (F) - I'm in a very sticky situation and I don't know what to do! I was dating this guy(let's call him “X”)for 6 years I met his family, and he proposed one fine day and we were going to get married, but then all of a sudden “X” decides to distance...

Has my well endowed ex left me less appealing to the next man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have been in a relationship with this guy for many years until we broke it off in 2003. I haven't had sex since, he was very endowed and I was wondering has my 'gift' lost its shape. I want to start dating and I want be be nice and...

Why did I let him turn me into someone I hate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - I dated this guy last year, and I had only known him for 2 months when we started dating. I was completely innocent when we started dating, and he had a lot of sexual experience with girls before me. At first the relationship started steadily...

Who do I choose, my current boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now almost a year n a half so i have an ex who is currently back in town. He is demanding to be back with me nevertheless i have moved on he is telling me that he does not care wether i make him ...

What qualifies as "successful" emotional abuse, and what can I do to get continuous abuse, "failed" or otherwise, to stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I am having a huge problem, or at least, a huge thought process about a decently large problem. So, uh, it'll be a bit of a detailed story. Sorry... Last year I started going to a small private school, many of the students and teachers I had m...

Am I her last option? Am I making a wise decision to marry her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

21 March 2013 (M) - This is going to be a long one. Please take time to read and help me. I recently started dating my best friend's sister. She had two past relationship, I was a virgin and she is my first. She told most of her past, hearing it all made me cringe a...

She worshipped me and I treated her like dirt. I want to contact her. Should I try to do that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Some time ago I met a girl on a dating site and ended up hurting real bad and now she hates me. I can't very much blame her because she was always sincere with me and went out of her way to show a concern for me and interest in me. I was the exac...

Ex-boyfriend vs. Current Boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4300 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I am so lost on what to do..my ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 years but closer to the end of our relationship he became distant and barely texted me (a lot had to do with work since he had started a full time job that involved shift work, ...

He cheated. I told the girl, but she went back to him and he forgot about me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I Really need help with this one... So I have been doing a long distance relationship with this guy since last january of 2012 I was going to school in vegas and he lives in huntington beach 3 hour drive not bad. We actually saw eachother alot in ...

How do I get things back on track with my guy friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4300 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I'm a 30yr old female who has been separated for about a year. Last April I met a guy I worked with who is now 22yrs old. Even though he's younger than I am he is actually very mature for his age. We started off as friends but as the months ...

My ex-wife is trying to turn our daughter against my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

20 March 2013 (M) - My ex wife has crossed her line,and for some reason blames everything on my girlfriend whose been nothing but nice to my child and my wife!and my child(amelia)she loves my girlfriend and has accepted her,she calls her to take her shopping,to discuss ...

How can I forget my ex boyfriend if I still hate him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - How can i forget my ex bf,if still i hate him for lying to me many times?Im trying to forgive him many times but still he deny the truth i was hurt why he did to me like this i was honest to me him,he promise many things but i know all of that is ...

Shall I give into guilt and tell my beloved? That I kissed a few times with a boy when I was younger? Or how can I deal with my feelings on this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I was in a relation for 3 years with a guy, and i thought i loved him.. True love type of love, but I was too young and went with the flow did wrong things like inviting him home when no one was around. We kissed a couple of times.. But eventual...

Is feeling unsure, after taking back a cheater, a normal response? Could he still be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. In the last year he asked me twice to marry him, after I said yes, he asked me 2 time to run off and get married in December last year and last month. However this month I found out he was cheating ...

Girlfriend seeing her ex and it makes me uneasy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - so my girlfriend has never been with a woman before me. we've been together for about four months now and i feel very confident that she loves and cares a lot for me. we seem to be a phenominal couple and have no real issues in our relationship at ...

My ex wants to get married but I cant forget about her past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

20 March 2013 (M) - I was in a 5 year relationship with my ex.We have been broken up for 2 years.I ran into her at a restaurant and we began talking about getting back together.We started back dating and having fun together.After about 2 weeks she told me during our 2 ...

I think my ex got married on a short term relationship, I want to contact her, but should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

20 March 2013 (M) - Ok, this will probably be a little complicated. Both my girlfriend and I are middle aged, so, a little older than many of the people who post here. But, I could use some advice on a tricky issue. We had been dating for 1.5 years. I was going th...

How can someone have such strong feelings about you and make serious promises then switch them off so suddenly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - Hello all..So I need some advice about my current ex-boyfriend. I'm not sure, but looking back I think he had bipolar disorder. He has never been diagnosed, not that i know of, but some of his behavior drove me crazy. When we first started sating he ...