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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How much time do I need to get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - My ex of three years dumped me. I'm trying to move on. I know I shouldn't miss him but sometimes I just can't help thinking about him.How much time do I need to get rid of him?...

My ex is stalking my Facebook, does he miss me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for six months. we bicker a lot and this is the 4th time we have split up. I am 4 months pregnant. when we broke up three weeks ago we were still talking, but when he told me he doesn't want to reconcile I changed ...

Ex with benefits, is there more into this than I am realising or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - I am confused. My ex boyfriend who dumped me 3 months ago has phoned me once a week why? no idea. Anyway he invited me around to his place for lunch and he cooked me up a lovely roast and we had a chat etc then ended up having sex. We did have a ...

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...

Why is this man making me mental? After my miscarriage, now his new girlfriend, I feel awful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I had been starting to feel so much better about this, but today was hit with a ton of bricks and I'm not even sure why it bothers me. I started "seeing" a guy I had met on vacation to a new school I was going to the next year. "Seeing" is in q...

Do I ask my boyfriend about an old sex tape I found in his camera?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the last year. He is home for the summer and I'm staying here in the apartment. So, whenever he is gone, I always do deep cleaning. While I was cleaning the closet out, I came across an old camera ...

My ex dumped me. why did he say he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - My ex dumped me and walked out of my life without any reasons two months. Recently he found out that I have a new boyfriend and contacted me. He told me he still loves me,but he can't stand to see me with someone else. He then unfriended me on ...

My Ex asked me to marry him. I am happy but why do I feel nervous at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4155 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a middle aged woman who loved this guy sometime ago we were in a relationship on and off for sometime but now our daughter is grown now he is in another state and so am I .Now that we are getting older there are no more babies he ...

Threesome with her ex. Mature answers please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - This isn't so much a question, but more of me asking for advice. So basically I know people are going to think I am weird, but here it goes. I have a fantasy of watching my girlfriend give oral to another guy. I have been with her for 2 years and ...

Is it wrong to send my ex bf's stuff back to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - My ex and I broke up three months ago. I initiated the breakup because we were in LDR and he drifted apart. I told him a hundred times if he had no love for me, please just feel free to tell me, I would understand since it's so difficult to be ...

I can talk to her and try to establish a friendship, which I imagine would make me happier, OR continue living my life imagining different ways this could turn out. Which?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - It's been a year and three months since my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, ending a two year relationship. It was a complete shock to me at the time(unexpected), especially since she started seeing another guy within the same week. When she ended...

Why did my ex send me a photo of him and his new girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1107 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - So my ex boyfriend and I haven't talked since we broke up. He has nerve to send me a picture of him and his new girl. I'm not going to lie, it did break me. I was getting over him and I'm happy for him but why would he do that? ... I need help:-(...

I don't like it that my boyfriend has started using instagram

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4156 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I am 27 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. I know he loves me very much and we both see a longterm future together. He recently started using instagram. I have a jealousy over it for some reason..i feely silly but it's h...

Is the guy I'm dating just a bandaid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - So ive had a very complicated romantic history lately... i dated a guy off and on since 2010 (currently not together) we had a child together and moved into an apartment this year after a few months we split up because he seriously miss treated me ...

Boyfriend can't let go of former lover

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months and are in our late 30's; somewhat older and wiser, you could say. Unfortunately with age comes more baggage. From the beginning there was a "red flag": his very close friendship with another ...

My cheating ex is making me feel bad because I had a one night stand after we broke up. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up around about 3 weeks ago due to him cheating on me. He's cheated on me multiple times, and now I've had enough, we broke up and ended and the break up has been challenging to say the least. ...

7 years and I'm still not over my ex, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, This might be quite long but I'm in dire need of some advice...i can't really talk to anyone else about this situation...Here goes: When i was about 17 i randomly met a guy at a gig, i can still remember it like it was yesterday, i...

Should I just ignore my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 4 years two months ago. We were long distance for 2 years and were very serious about our relationship because we've been through so many difficulties together. We had a huge fight because of his female friends before the ...

Why is my ex contacting me and even wanting to have a pajama party??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I havn't seen my ex boyfriend who dumped and left me alone in another state for nearly 3 months though he has phoned me regularly like once a week since leaving. I have now returned to the same state as him and been here for 3 weeks. He has done ...

Could this mean we both want to get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - My ex and I broke up 3 years ago. We are both in high school. She just broke up with her boyfriend of two-three years. She is really shy, as am I. We never talked much until recently, only over text.. The other day, she "accidentally" texted me. She ...

How can you tell someone theyre being unfair without it descending into a massive argument.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Im going through a custody battle right now and I have court on friday so this whole time is quite stressful for me. Well my boyfriends been going out on weekends staying out all night and I dont know where he is. He keeps talking to is ex who h...

She broke my heart and she's expecting me to wish her a birthday message

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - Hi, My ex- girlfriend that broke up our four year relationship would be celebrating her birthday in some days time. The fact is 4 months ago she broke up with me and recently she's been finding different means and tactics to get us talking,...

Would it be alright to buy presents for the son of my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - I dated a lady for 20 months, I got her with one child a son. Her son loved me a lot and now we broke up a month ago and pn the 30th pf june is this boy's birthday. What I will like to be help on is, can I buy this Boy some presents for his birthday ...

My ex wanted to know about my boyfriend. Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - My ex called me yesterday and said that he needs my help on a computer. He isn't good at using computers, but he knows that I am. He also asked me what I was up to. I told him that I was going to a family party. He also asked if I was still with my ...

Is this normal to feel like this? My ex would not speak to me at a friend's wedding and it made me feel horrible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - Yesterday I attended a friend's birthday party and ran into my long-term ex girlfriend and her new(ish) partner. We were together for many years and hadn't seen each other in quite a while. We knew each other would be attending but her partner ...

Deep friendship or electric spark - Should I settle for either one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I was in a relationship with my high school sweetheart for more than 9 years.It was a safe sweet comfortable relationship - too comfortable. But as usual career ambitions and growing up got in the way. Both of us were unhappy for the last 2 years ...

Am I missing my ex or the end of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4159 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I was wondering if anybody could help. I broke up with my little girls dad, due to constant arguments and the fact I feel like he isn't mature enough. He's really lazy works 2.5 hours a morning, and was procrastinating looking for anything els...

He texted me five weeks after the break-up -- why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - So I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 5 weeks ago. We were together for 4 years and he texted me for the first time after 5 weeks of not talking and said "someone made me think of you today. Hope you're doing well, I'm doing great:)" what am I ...

After 4 years silence and no support, my son's dad and his family want to get involved .... how should I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I had my son when I was 17 and his father has never been around. We were not in a relationship, it was more friends with benefits. I wasn't surprised he didn't want to play a part but I was hurt. I struggled like mad, and only this year have I been ...

How can I get closure and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Good afternoon. I went to get my alimony from my ex the other day. had to drive one hour and fifteen mins. to get it, way too long. I told him that it was too far to drive, he than said I can mail it, mailing it was not an option earlier for him. ...

My new man's sex drive is just so not on a par with mine and I think his deep love & affection for me is adversely affecting his sex drive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I was in a dysfunctional relationship for almost 8 years, I have to confess that is was largely because the sex was good, I was 33 when I met him and for the first time I was able to orgasm through penetrative sex and I guess I got addicted. My ...

I want my ex back but need to know how he feels he has a g/f!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Hello! So I'm a bit confused. I am still interested in my ex boyfriend. Every new guy that I meet reminds me how much I want my ex. Recently I met up with my ex for dinner. It was nice to see him. We talked a lot- about random things and about wh...

Is he really over me, even though he's had this girlfriend for over a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4162 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm looking for some advice regarding my ex. My ex and I dated for 4 years, and he broke up with me 2 years ago. It was sort of mutual, as we argued about little things quite often. We had a lot of differences in our interests (he liked sports...

Why would an ex delete you completely from their life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Why would an ex delete you completely from his / her life? Especially when you did nothing wrong to them and you did not hurt them in any way....

I know it's unhealthy to hate someone, but I just hope my ex dies. How can I get rid of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - My ex dumped me with no reason two months ago. He's my first. He cheated on me twice and I still forgave him. We were together for 4 years and the last two years were long distance. We were serious. He talked about getting married and having kids. A ...

Should I give my bf time to get over his ex so that he can be happy with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and living together a few months now. Start of our relationship was great however I asked too many qn's about his past and ex girlfriends and I found out that there was one girl In particular that hurt ...

My Boyfriend Won't Stop Confiding in His Ex...Who Is Still Interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm a college student in a 2 year relationship with my current boyfriend. Before me, he was dating this girl for 4 years. They remained distant friends after things didn't work out and would occasionally text/call to just update each other about ...

I have moved on and have a nice boyfriend so why a I missing my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - my daughters father and i broke up march 15 2012, it took me forever to get over him! I started dating my current boyfriend Feb 15. Me and my boyfriend got into a fight and he went back home he lived 30 minutes away. I have my own place and he ...

A girl that my b/f used to be intimate with is in our circle of friends. She's always around, how can I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4163 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I am in need of some advice..my b/f and i are 29 years old and have been together for almost a year..i have no doubt that we truly love each other and we see a future together. We are both currently staying with family members in order to save ...

Ex partner apologises after 2 years apart!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

19 June 2013 (M) - I split with my partner 2 years ago. I had 1 young child with her and she had a child from a previous relationship. We had been together for about 12 years! We have stayed in touch due to me seeing my son weekly, of course, and she has often ha...

He told his ex that I wasn't his g/f but I scary room mate he had to babysit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks for reading. I met my ex from riding, we meet on Easter weekend, at the time I was looking for a place to move, and so was he, so we decided to shared a place, few days before we move in to the house, we became boyfriend and girl...

My ex-girlfriend is trying to get back to me, am confused!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

19 June 2013 (M) - My ex girlfriend that we dated for four years left me for another guy, four months later she started sending sms to me just for us to get talking.I ignored all, recently she sent this one which got me very confused . She sent this " hello, how ...

Do I bow out for the sake of my boyfriend's children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - I need help as I am having a serious dilemma! I am with a wonderful guy...been together 2 years and are happy together. He has 2 kids, we want them together as I don't have any. When we met, we decided to save for a house, marriage etc. I ...

Is it possible to love someone without trusting them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi guys ! Me and my boyfriend had been in a on and off relationship for almost 3years , on top off that he was my first love.... During those 3years Ive been good girl that always get hurt ! I was faithful to him never derespected him ! But hi...

Is he still into his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi and thanks My bf and I have been together for about a yr. Its been a roller coaster at times. Hes got different rules for him and I. Don't text men don't email men but he texts his ex and hangs out with her. He swears hes over her but I get we...

How can I forget about this lady?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - hello everyone, i need help or advice about my situation. well it's been 2 years now since i met this lady, she lives long way away from where i live, last year i told her about my feeling to her in the phone, and she didn't say anything at all. wel...

His ex is back -- should I even try to compete with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and before we were together he was with his ex girlfriend for 7 years, she broke his heart. When he started dating me, she said all kinds of really nasty things about my appearance, and that he could do...

Should I explain my insecurities to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - I've recently started seeing this amazing guy, who I really do like, it's early days but still. We both really like each other and things are going good. But the other day we were walking through town holding hands, and I got a text from my ex (I ...

Will I always feel like an idiot because I ended the relationship with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - Right a quick question as its bothering me, If you could please help, a few years back I was with a girl of 5 years. We was in our teens, and had a nice relationship got along, was nice and. Very sexually active. Anyway towards the end I got ...

Boyfriend refriended his ex. Do I believe the reason he gave me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - So boyfriend refriended his ex on Facebook a couple of months after unfriending her because I had asked him to. I had insecurities about her even though they broke up about two years ago. He says it was weird that he unfriended her in the first ...